FAQs

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Are children or the next generation of family invited?

Answer

To host the intimate celebration we’ve envisioned and stay within our planned budget, we have chosen to limit our guest list. This allows us to focus on providing the best possible experience for our closest relatives and friends. For family, we are including only our first cousins; for friends, we request an adults-only evening, with the only exceptions being those involved in the wedding party. Thank you for understanding our desire to keep this evening small and meaningful!

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What is the dress code?

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Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.

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What should I wear on my feet?

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While our ceremony and cocktail locations are paved, the estate paths can be historic and uneven. We highly recommend wedge-type heels or block heels so you can comfortably navigate the gardens.

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Will I be outside all night?

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Not at all! After "basking by the pond" for cocktails, shuttles will whisk you to our reception hall. This is a fully climate-controlled indoor space where the celebration continues.

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What if it rains?

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We have a beautiful Plan B! If the weather doesn't cooperate, we will move to a climate-controlled indoor space where soaring floor-to-ceiling windows bring the beauty of the gardens into our intimate ceremony while keeping everyone dry and comfortable.

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How do I stay comfortable during the outdoor portions?

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Since we'll be in a vibrant outdoor space for the ceremony and cocktails, we suggest bringing a wrap or jacket to stay warm. Rest assured, both the Plan B ceremony space and the reception hall are fully climate-controlled, and an attached patio at the reception allows you to engage with the outdoors at your leisure!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, we are delighted to collaborate with our caterer to accommodate most food allergies and dietary restrictions. Please inform us of any special dietary needs in advance, even if you believe the selected meal is safe for your requirements.

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Will there be alcohol?

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Yes, we will have an open bar for all of our guests to enjoy complimentary drinks throughout the event.

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Do you have a hotel block for guests?

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Yes! Please see the travel page on our website for details of our hotel block.

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How should I RSVP?

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To RSVP, go to the RSVP page on this website. Please submit your RSVP by MARCH 5, 2026 so we can plan accordingly!