FAQs

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What do I wear?!

Answer

Cocktail/Semi-Formal “flexibility on comfort, but be sure not to dress too casual” Men: Tuxes are welcome, suites, dark jackets, and slacks. Ties or bow ties highly suggested!! Women: Cocktail, tea-length, knee-length, or midi dresses, or dressy jumpsuits. Please do not crack out anything that predates the couple - we are old so that shouldn't be too hard. https://www.brides.com/cocktail-attire-wedding-4844364

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Is there parking?

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Yes, both St. John's and Platform Thirty have parking! You must move your car from the church to the reception location after Mass.

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Do I have a date?

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If your invite says "& Guest" or your significant other's name appears, the answer is yes! If not, we are sorry but there will be no +1 for you! We know many people may feel strongly about this and we hope you understand our guest list was carefully chosen and reflects our desire for a great night - we can't wait for you to join us.

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Are children invited?

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While we love all of your children, we would like you to have an evening off, so get a babysitter ready now and make sure your Disney+ account is working. Children may not be invited to our wedding but they can still watch a Beauty marry a Beast at home!

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What if I didn't RSVP in time?!

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To help us with our planning, we kindly ask that you RSVP by May 5th. If we don't receive your RSVP by May 5th, we can't make exceptions and will have to mark you as "NO". We need to provide the venue with a total guest count in a timely manner, and we don't want to risk any hiccups in the planning process. We hope you can understand. We will give a reminder if we have not heard from you but we need your answer by May 5th!

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I can't make it but would love to still be apart of your special day!

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Awesome, the whole ceremony will be live-streamed online. Watch here on Friday June 16 at 4pm: https://youtube.com/live/0P6BRpMkf0M?feature=share

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Do I have to go to the church?

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Brendan's Answer: How is this even a question? Of course! Gabrielle's Answer: Please come to Mass, Brendan is taking attendance with his eyes.