FAQs
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What should I expect during the ceremony?
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An Orthodox wedding is rich in symbolism from the Old and New Testaments, and does not include spoken vows. Instead, several meaningful rituals take place: Candles: We each hold candles symbolizing the light of Christ guiding our marriage. Rings: The rings are exchanged three times, representing mutual love and the Holy Trinity. Crowns (Stefana): The crowns, known as the crowns of martyrdom, reflect the Orthodox belief that lasting love is nurtured through sacrifice, gentleness, and caring for one another with Christlike devotion. Common Cup & Procession: By drinking from the common cup, we affirm our commitment to share one life. The Dance of Isaiah—three circles around the altar—reflects the joy of beginning that journey together with God at the center. The service is chanted and prayerful, and typically lasts about 45 minutes.
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Why are the bride & groom called different names during the ceremony?
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You may notice that during the service we are addressed by our baptismal names (Menas & Magdalena) rather than our everyday names. This is a special tradition that reflects our identity as members of the faith, marking our union as a sacrament and invoking the prayers of our patron saints as we begin our life together.
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What is expected of me during the ceremony?
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Guests are kindly asked to silence your phones, avoid taking photos unless permitted, and follow any cues from the clergy or fellow guests regarding standing or sitting.
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What About Iconography and Veneration?
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During the service you may observe some guests bowing or kissing icons. This tradition, known as veneration, is a sign of respect for the holy images and not an act of worship. Participation in this is entirely optional, and there is no expectation for non-Orthodox guests to venerate icons.
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Dress Code: Anything Special?
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Elegant and modest attire is appreciated for our evening service and reception. While some Orthodox churches ask women to cover their heads with scarves, this practice varies, but you are not expected to at our ceremony. Men should not wear hats or head coverings.
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Are children allowed to attend?
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Absolutely—children are warmly welcome at the ceremony and the reception.
