We love your kids- we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! If your child's name is on your invite, please bring them! If it is not, and you can't find a babysitter.. they're still welcome, but please remember, there will be alcoholic beverages at the reception.
Sorry, but yes it is. We understand if this is too much driving, but hope to see everyone at either the ceremony, or the reception, if not both. For those willing and able, we'd be over the moon to celebrate with you the whole day!
If your invitation says "and Guest", then yes, if not, we would prefer it was just you.
Semi-formal or dressy casual please! But we also want you to feel comfortable so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.