FAQs

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When should I RSVP?

Answer

We know it’s very last minute, but as soon as possible, and definitely before the deadline on the invitation

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Our guest list is very tight, unfortunately we will not be allowing any plus ones without an invitation.

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Can I bring my kids?

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Although we’d love to see the little ones, our guest list is very tight and we will not be able to accommodate more than the individual invitations.

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What if I RSVP’d “yes” but can’t make it?

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Let the couple know ASAP. Last minute cancellations should be avoided unless it’s an emergency.

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What should I wear?

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Follow the dress code on the invite. If unsure, semi-formal is a safe bet. Avoid white!

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Do I have to bring a gift?

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It’s expected, but your presence matters most. If money is tight, a heartfelt card or small meaningful gift works.

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Can I send a gift after the wedding?

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Yes! It’s fine to send one within two months after the wedding.

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When should I arrive?

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Between 1:30 pm and 2:10 pm. Preferably seated no later than 2:10

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Is it okay to take photos during the ceremony?

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Discreetly, yes. But we prefer you leave it to the pros.

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Can I switch my assigned seat at the reception?

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No, seating is planned for a reason. If there’s an issue, discreetly ask a coordinator.

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Is it rude to leave before the reception ends?

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Try to stay through key moments like the cake cutting and first dance. If you must leave early, do so quietly.