FAQs
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What date should I RSVP by?
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Brin: Whatever the invitation says. Brandi: Please RSVP by September 1st.
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Is there a hotel room block?
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Brin: Yes, we have blocked off rooms at Townsend Manor Inn. Brandi: Just call me at work to book!
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Will there be a ceremony?
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Brin: Yes, IYKYK. Brandi: Yes, there will be a private ceremony with immediate family only.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Brin: Unfortunately, due to space limitations, we are unable to accommodate additional guests. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated. Brandi: Nope! Sorry!
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Are children invited to the reception?
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Brin: We love your children, but due to space restrictions, we cannot accommodate guests under age 21 on our wedding day. Brandi: We have decided to make our big day adults only, so all the parents can enjoy a night off!
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What should I wear to the reception?
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Brin: Whatever you want! We really don't care. But most people will probably wear what Brandi says. Brandi: Cocktail/Formal Attire, A suit or dress shirt with a tie is suggested. A cocktail dress of any length mid or long is suggested. Any and all colors are acceptable. What's more important to us is having you there, not what you wear!
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Will transportation be provided?
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Brin: We are not providing transportation to and from the reception, but there is plenty of parking available at Townsend. Brandi: If you do not wish to drive, we suggest taking a taxi. Recommended Taxi Companies Classy Cabs (631) 276-7071 Hometown Taxi (631) 765-8622
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Will there be an afterparty?
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Brin: The party doesn't stop, it just moves inside. Brandi: Once dancing winds down outside, the drinking can start inside.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Brin: Does a bear shit in the woods? Brandi: We will be offering a full open bar of wine, beer, and spirits.
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Is an Irish goodbye acceptable?
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Brin: Absolutely! No need to track us down—we’ll likely be on the dance floor. Just know how happy we are you came! Brandi: It is actually preferred!
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What is the food situation?
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Brin: We will be serving hors d'ouvres during cocktail hour. The main dinner will be a buffet. Obviously, there will be dessert too! Brandi: We will do our best to have options for most dietary restrictions but options may be limited. We will offer at least one option for gluten free and vegetarian guests. Because our reception is outside, we will be using disposable dinnerware. Do not worry, we are choosing as much eco friendly bamboo, palm leaf, recycled and compostable options as possible!