Formal, all black! For women; long black dresses are requested. Can be solid or patterned! For men; black suit is recommended. I’m not going to be crazy about what undershirt you wear black or white!
Short answer, no. We absolutely LOVE your littles & not so littles, we can’t wait to see them soon but for our wedding we are keeping it adults only. Perfect excuse for a date night, there will also be a brief intermission between ceremony and cocktail hour if you need to run to check on them.