FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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We kindly ask that you RSVP no later than January 1st, 2026. If you cannot RSVP by then; then we cannot save your spot and you will be missed at the wedding!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We ask that you arrive no later than 3:50 pm! The doors will be closed at 3:55 pm!

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Are kids welcome?

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While, kids are welcome we have limited space. So to protect that, if kids are not clearly stated on your invitation, we kindly ask that you think of this event as a date night and leave them at home. We understand this may not be feasible for all! Please feel free to reach out!

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Can I bring a date?

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Since we are trying to keep this closely related and special to us, if the invitation doesn’t state that you have a plus one, we kindly ask that you bring a plus one on our special day, as we cannot accommodate more. Please indicate your party in the RSVP if you can get a plus-one or more.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Since the bride tends to avoid certain foods, all foods are made with less dairy than usual and are gluten-free, including the cake. Since this decision was made, no other requests can be made

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WHAT IF I DON’T RSVP IN TIME?

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Unfortunately, we will not be able to accommodate you if you RSVP late. We will need to provide our vendors and the venue exact numbers by a certain date. While we will send out reminders, please try to RSVP as soon as possible.

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CAN I BRING MY GIFT TO THE WEDDING?

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Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you'd like to contribute, a Home Fund donation would be wonderful, as it will make our travel back home easier. We’ll have a table set up for any cards you'd like to share—we can't wait to read them!

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Is it open bar?

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Yes, drinks will be flowing and they are on us! Please enjoy the open bar but remember drunk shenanigans will be heavily photographed and thoroughly mocked for years to come. Please drink responsibly!

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Will there be a shuttle service for after the reception?

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While there will not be a shuttle or taxi service, uber is all around us and can help you get to your hotel.

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CAN I TAKE PICTURES DURING THE CEREMONY?

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We kindly ask that during our ceremony, you put your phones away and be present with us! We have hired photographers to capture these fun memories! However, during the reception, please take as many photos as you would like and share them with us! We will have a QR code for you to share your pics.

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IS THERE PARKING AT THE VENUE?

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Yes, there is dedicated parking at the venue. However, if you plan on drinking, please utilize an Uber or carpool with an individual who will be sober. We want all of our guests to arrive and leave safely!

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IS THE WEDDING INDOORS OR OUTDOORS?

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While it is a February wedding, Oklahoma can have unpredictable weather from snow to 70 outside. We are hoping for the ceremony to be outside and the reception to be inside weather permitting. Please dress accordingly! Any updates will be sent via text.

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What's the dress code?

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Please wear your Sunday best and refrain from super-bright (saturated) colors or white. Don't forget to bring your dancing shoes or go barefoot like the bride!