FAQs

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When and where do I RSVP?

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Please RSVP through our wedding website once you receive your formal invitation in early 2026. We look forward to celebrating with you and appreciate your response when the time comes!

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What if I can’t make it?

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If you can't attend our wedding, we'll miss you dearly. Please RSVP "no" as soon as possible to help us finalize our plans.

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Can I bring a guest?

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Your invitation is a personal reflection of our guest list. If a guest is specifically named on your invitation, you are welcome to bring them! Otherwise, we kindly request that you attend solo.

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What is the dress code?

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Cocktail attire. Think elevated but fun! For women: midi or knee-length dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or chic separates with heels or dressy sandals. For men: suits or dress pants with a blazer and tie. We’d love for everyone to feel dressed up and ready to celebrate! Kindly refrain from wearing white or off-white shades so the bride can shine on her big day.

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What will the weather be like?

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While we can't predict the exact weather, Eugene in April typically offers mild temperatures around 60° in the afternoon. Our venues provide comfortable indoor settings, with a covered patio available during the reception, ensuring a delightful experience regardless of the day's conditions.

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Is there parking available at both venues?

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Yes, parking is conveniently available at both venues. St. Paul's offers a spacious parking lot with additional street parking options. Shadow Hills features an expansive parking area that will comfortably accommodate all of our guests.

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What time should I arrive?

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We recommend arriving by 1:30 PM, allowing ample time to find your seat and settle in before our ceremony begins promptly at 2 PM.

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Can I take photos?

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We've entrusted a professional photographer to beautifully document our wedding day. During the ceremony, we kindly request that you put away your cell phones and cameras to be fully present in the moment. Once the ceremony concludes, feel free to capture all the joy and celebration of the evening with your cameras and phones!

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What happens after the ceremony?

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After the Mass, we invite you to join us for a delightful cocktail hour featuring a selection of beer and wine, accompanied by light hors d'oeuvres. Dinner will commence at 5:00, where we look forward to celebrating with you.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! We're delighted to offer an open bar with wine and beer throughout the reception, along with a cash bar for liquor.

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Can I smoke on the property?

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Smoking is not permitted inside either venue. If needed, guests may smoke in the parking lot just outside the venue.