FAQs

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Are masks required?

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Yes, and no. Please understand that a significant number of guests have chronic medical conditions which put them at higher risk of hospitalization or fatality in the event they were to contract the Novel Coronavirus. As a result if you have not been vaccinated we are requiring that a mask be worn at all times unless you are eating. We are very serious about this and unless we know for a fact that you have been vaccinated we will be requiring proof of vaccination or else you will be provided a mask. In the event you are told to wear a mask or decide to wear one we expect them to be worn properly so that they cover both mouth and nose. This is non negotiable and anyone who refuses to comply will be asked to leave or else forcibly removed. There is a time and a place to argue about this, and our wedding is neither of those. This is Our day, you have been invited at Our leisure, and you will abide by Our rules or your welcome status will quickly be revoked.

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What if I have a medical exemption from wearing a mask?

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Some exceptions may apply for individuals who require supplemental oxygen or who have chronic lung conditions which prevent the use of a mask— but if these situations apply to you we would encourage you to reconsider your attendance for the sake of your own health. We love and appreciate that you wish to be part of our special day but it is simply not worth the risk to your health, and we would hate to be responsible for endangering you.

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Can I smoke at the wedding/reception?

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Yes! But only in front of the barn by the parking lot on the gravel per venue policy.

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Is this event kid friendly?

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Absolutely! We accounted for everyone’s kids when estimating our initial headcount. If you are comfortable bringing them, please do!

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Can I take pictures or record for my own enjoyment?

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We request there be absolutely no recording of video or taking of pictures during the ceremony. We will have a photographer there day of for wedding party and ceremony pictures, and may or may not record the ceremony. Recording and photography during the reception is fine, but please stay out of the photographer’s way so that he can capture the absolute best moments free from intrusive figures or devices.

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Will photos and/or video be available to the guests after the fact?

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Yes of course! We are personal friends with the photographer and will have a complete copy of everything taken at the event! If for any reason you would like printed copies of certain photos this can be arranged with the photographer at his discretion and potentially for a price, that will be up to him. He has been a professional photographer for roughly forty years and can arrange all shape and size prints for a price depending on if he chooses to offer that service. Digital copies of everything will be made available sometime after the ceremony for free, you need only ask us and we will make a complete archive available upon request once everything has been curated for quality. If for any reason you do not wish pictures of you or your family to be posted online please let us know ahead of time.

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How’s the weather in Tennessee during late July?

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Hot, and humid. Also be aware that Tennessee has the highest pollen count of any state in the union, please take allergy medications as recommended by your doctor. Additionally while we expect you to be dressed appropriately for a formal wedding, don’t forget to account for the heat and consider dressing in lighter fabrics and fewer layers. The venue for the reception is the same as the ceremony but will take place indoors, which is only partially air conditioned. The sun will likely not go down until after 9pm and it is entirely possible outside temperatures could reach a hundred degrees. If you have a health condition such as epilepsy which makes you sensitive to heat please be sure you bring any rescue medication you might need in an emergency and take every measure you must to preserve your health!

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Is there a dress code? What is it?

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There is, and it’s formal. NOT black tie, just formal. A tie is appropriate, a vest or blazer is appropriate, a nice midi dress, wrap dress, high-low dress, sheath dress, tea length dress, cocktail dress, are all appropriate. Similar dresses are also fine. They do not need to be black or extravagant, all colors are appropriate just remember that the darker it is the hotter it will be to wear! Please no jeans or denim, but a nice pair of shorts is perfectly fine. There will be dancing and children, wear open toed shoes at your own peril. It is also totally understandable to bring something to change into for the reception, but we would like all of our ceremony pictures to look as nice as possible, please.