FAQs

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The Whole Weekend?

Answer

We know how fast a wedding day flies by, and we want real time with the people we love. That’s why we’re inviting anyone who wants to come early to join us on Friday night. Friday is for catching up, talking, relaxing, and spending time together before the big celebration begins. And because we want Saturday to be one giant, uninterrupted party, we’ll be doing speeches on Friday night instead of during the reception. Think of it as a warm, cozy, not‑so‑traditional moment to laugh, cry, toast, and share stories before the dance floor takes over. Saturday night, though? That’s for celebrating. Once the music starts, we will not be leaving the dance floor. Saturday is the proper ceremony and celebration, and we can’t wait to share that moment with you. We completely understand that everyone has their own obligations and responsibilities — life is busy, and Friday night is totally optional. Come if you can, skip it if you need to. No pressure at all. And because we never want the fun (or the conversations) to end, we’re hosting a Sunday brunch for anyone who wants to linger a little longer. It’s the perfect chance to recap the weekend, hug goodbye, and soak up a slow morning together before heading home. Whether you join us for one night or all three, we’re just grateful to celebrate with you.

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Can I bring a plus 1 or tiny humans with me?

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The guests whose names are listed on the invitations are the only guests we can accommodate. We are at max capacity for the venue! However, if you want to bring your kids, just know that they can't participate in any wedding events.

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What is the lodging situation?

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We have a room block for the entire resort and an extra room block at a hotel in the nearby city (Carlisle). See the Travel tab for more information.