Blair & Tiffany
Our Wedding Party
Caeden Sweet
Blairsman
I met Caeden on a random night at a party in Ithaca, New York over 22 years ago. Because of that chance meeting, I found my best friend, and began a life-long friendship of learning how to grow up and how to laugh (and cry) at ourselves along the way. When you’re young, it seems cool to define yourself by the bad decisions you make. And Caeden and I bonded over our subconscious quest to make the worst ones possible. As we grew up, thankfully, we began defining ourselves by the grace at which we handled ourselves in those situations, and eventually, by the good choices we were making. He is my ride or die through all of the crazy, wild, awful, wonderful moments in my life, and my wedding day is no exception.
What Caeden had to say
in his own words...
From Blair and I hating each other 22 years ago, to a 900 mile move south, relationships’ beginnings and endings, hypothetical questions and life meaning speculation, fights and lots of laughter, life transitions, and parallel lives, we truly have grown up together. It hasn’t always been easy, but my gut feeling the first time we met wasn’t wrong, we are and always will be best friends. To bear witness to how you two have also grown together has been an honor. The ways in which you have learned to bravely communicate, challenge and support one another are something of a real love story. It’s not always easy, but it’s a true and lasting adventure. It’s the good stuff! And I’m grateful to know you’re both in good hands and hearts, that you have another best-friend in each other.
Beth Cavalier
Blairsman
Beth stole my “how we met” story about driving to Boston after having only known each other for half a minute. Beth makes everyone feel seen and heard because she has the ability to draw you in with her charm and the excitement in her voice as she tells the same story for the 50th time like it was the first time she’s ever told it. While much of our friendship is rooted in inside jokes and trying to remain young at heart, Beth has always been there for me - singing Les Mis while standing on a chair crunching chips, sharing some dark and twisty Ani Difranco songs, or by literally giving me a roof over my head 2 times even though I almost single-handedly knocked down the bathroom wall. I can’t wait to hear my wedding stories as told by Beth.
What Beth had to say
In her own words...
I met Blair on the soccer field at Ithaca College in the fall of 1998. After knowing each other for approximately 20 minutes, we decided to take a road trip to Boston to watch soccer playoffs, and the rest, as they say, is history. Once we figured out the way home without a cell phone or GPS, what followed was more than 20 years of bad poetry, mixtapes, road trips, off-key singing, board games, inside jokes, stupid accents, live music, and porch sitting. We've managed to keep a joke going for 22 years, referring to each other as "fawns" and driving everyone around us crazy. We've been there for each other through the good, the bad, and the ugly (clunky shoes and red felt hats). Even though we make fun of each other a lot, the love runs deep.
Dawn Thomas
Blairsman
The very first time I met Dawn, I instantly decided that I wanted to be her friend. She has one of those charismatic personalities that makes you feel like the funniest, most important person in the room. While we all know my jokes fall flat 99% of the time, when Dawn is around, I feel like a seasoned stand up-comedian. She lived across the country for most of our friendship, and now that she somehow ended up in the same city as me, our friendship has evolved into more than jokes and shenanigans; navigating adulthood with Dawn as a friend has been a true source of happiness.
What Dawn had to say
In her own words...
My friendship with Blair has always been rooted in humor, support, evolution, and love. For most of our friendship, we were divided by distance, sometimes divided by differences, but always connected on a cellular level. I am so excited and honored to be part of this beautiful celebration of marriage between these two magnificent people. Such a gift to bear witness to the changing seasons of our loved ones lives. I love you both and I’m thrilled to be present as you usher in the next chapter of your lives together.
Wes Hatfield
Blairsman
I already have an older brother, but my friendship with Wes has given me the pesky, younger brother I never knew I wanted. Though he’ll tease me and make fun of me at any chance he gets, I know that no matter what, Wes will always be there for me and love me unconditionally.
What Wes had to say
in his own words...
Blair and I met at work and bonded over several rousing contests of backless chair jousting. We've run (and fallen) through Puerto Rican rainforests and frozen North Carolina beaches and have basically been endlessly bickering for fifteen years.
Brad Rostolsky
Blairsman
I always tease Brad that he’s the favorite child and that he set the bar way too high. Lucky for me, he brings that level of amazingness to being my big brother, too. Brad has always looked out for me and supported me emotionally; he’s maybe even saved me a few times when I was still trying to figure out the whole adulting thing. He was the first person who ever really showed me how listening to music can change your life. It makes me so happy that he is passing on that love for music to his kids, but it doesn’t make me quite as happy when he calls me and makes me listen to him sing.
What Brad had to say
in his own words...
I am so excited to be a part of this incredibly special day in Blair and Tiffany’s life. I’ve known Blair for a little while now, and I can say with a fairly high degree of confidence that I can’t imagine another person better for Blair than Tiffany. This is the union of two strong, independent, smart, and passionate people, and I’m so looking forward to watching them continue to build an amazing life together.
Emma WIlson
Blairsman
Tiffany brings so many wonderful things to our relationship, and one of the best things she's ever shared with me is her sister, Emma. I have never been around Emma without feeling inspired by her creativity and in hysterics by her humor. She's one of the kindest, most sincere, and all around amazing teenagers in the world. I work with teenagers every single day, so I'm kind of an expert. I'm so excited that I get to officially call her my sister!
What Emma had to say
In her own words...
Me and Blair did not meet on purpose, but ever since we met she has been like another big sister to me. From having the same poofy hair to taking me to get chocolate croissants, I am so glad that we met! Thank you for letting me be a part of this journey!
Carson Keith
Bridesmaid
From the first day of class, it seemed like Carson could read my mind, and it's been that way ever since. She should be in the hall of fame for best roommates. She has the strength to lift me when I'm down, the adventure to learn how to navigate adult life with me, and the grace to love me in spite of all of that. Between feeding me when I was too scattered to feed myself, supporting me through hard classes, job changes and now relationship and life changes, she manages to keep me rolling with her sense of humor. Carson- thank you for not asking the questions you knew I didn't want to answer and then saying "I knew it" when I inevitably told you anyway.
What Carson Had To Say
In her own words...
Tiffany is my only and all- time favorite roommate. We met on one fateful day in a class at GSU and never looked back. She taught me that sticking up for myself is self care, and that I don't have thin hair but I do have fine hair. I miss her at all times.
Steffi Waddell
Bridesmaid
If Steffi has taught me anything, it's that things happen the way they should and to trust yourself in experiencing the way that life unfolds. Steffi is the left brain to my right brain, the type B to my type A, and the calm to my storm. The endless hair memes, spiritual talks, advice exchanging, and unwavering support are things that I cherish about our friendship. We could hike a mountain, drink a few beers, or have a hair day, and I never leave her presence without being grateful for being in it. Steffi: Thank you for all of the listening, brainstorming, and laughing. I hope you always have the chair next to mine!
What Steffi Had To Say
In her own words...
I've only known Tiffany for the few years I've been back in Georgia, but it feels like we have been friends for a lifetime. We met via a mutual friend back when I was trying to find a salon home, and I was fortunate enough to find a work bestie that has welcomed me into such an incredible salon family. It's been wonderful working next to her these last few years. Tiffany works hard and loves fiercely, and it's been a joy to witness the love between her and Blair. I'm so excited for all the adventures to come as their love continues to blossom.
Ryan Wilson
Bridesmaid
Ryan is not only an amazing sister, but she's an amazing friend (and wedding planner). Watching her grow into the amazing, strong, intelligent person that is way cooler than me has been an honor. Ryan's humor is a solid match to her cool, collected, put- together personality, and I often find myself asking my younger sister for advice. Knowing that she's watching inspires me to be better and be someone she can look up to when life gets real. We're sisters of adventure, and I wouldn't trade her squeezy hugs for the world. Ryan- thank you for loving me even though I locked you in the shower when you were little. I've loved you since you were born, but I super like you now!
What Ryan Had To Say
In her own words...
T and I met at a really young age. Through all of the showers I have been locked into, and the times I have driven her absolutely crazy, I am so lucky to have her as a big sister. She is an amazing role model, and I wouldn't trade our laughs, tears, and hugs for anything else in the world. From the time she quite literally swam against the current for me, when we fell off the jet ski together, and our sister sandwich date days, I am so happy and honored to be her little sister. I'll see you tomorrow, T!
Dorothy Pinney
Bridesmaid
Dorothy is one of the people I look up to and wonder how she does it all. Lucky for me, she's always there to give advice, share her wisdom, and keep me on track. She gave me a chance, back in the day, to work under her license and learn from her, and it's one of the best decisions I ever made. I mean it when I say that I truly don't know where my life would have ended up without her. I owe a lot to her, and I'm honored that she loves and values me enough to work by her side every day. She pushes me to be better, but she always make sure that I know she's there if I stumble. Her laugh is infectious, and there's no better salon owner/mom/big sister in the world. Dorothy: Thank you for all of the love, support, and time you've given me. Even when you think I'm not listening, I am :)
What Dorothy Had To Say
In her own words...
I met Tiffany in 2012 when she came into the salon I was working at and asked if we needed an assistant. She knew at 16 that she wanted to be a hairstylist, and I’m glad I’ve been able to watch her from then until now grow into an amazing and successful stylist. Tiffany obtained her apprentice license under me and went on to build her clientele at another salon. Once I knew she was ready, I practically begged her to come back and work with me in 2019. I am honored to have known her these past 10 years and to watch her relationship with Blair grow. I know she never needed a fourth Mom, but maybe I can be the older sister in her story. :) I’m so happy to be a part of her bridal party and look forward to the planning and celebrating we will have between now and September. Love you Tiffany!
Brandt Sheffield
Bridesman
I could listen to Brandt talk all day. He's intelligent, sensitive, and hilarious, and I know every time I see him that I'll leave smiling. We made it through many semesters at GSU with a lot of naps and minimal injury. He's always known how to soothe my anxiety, and I want him to forever teach me all his fun facts. He's been there for the girly stuff, the serious stuff, and the funny stuff. He'll always show up, even if he's late, and I know that I can count on him for anything. From the GSU dorm to adult life, he's been a solid rock for me. Brandt: Thank you for letting me use your bed with the deluxe mattress topper for naps in between classes, and thank you for leaving your door unlocked all the time so I could run in and scare you!
What Brandt Had To Say
In his own words...
Tiffany and I met as freshman having just moved into the same floor of the dorms. Who knew you would actually make friends during those cheesy group icebreaker introductions? A year of hiding from bad roommates and worrying about classes from a dozen patios, curbs, and courtyard walls taught me that Tiffany is unshakable in trust and unrelenting in her thoughtfulness. While we don't worry about class anymore, Tiffany is still my shoulder to lean on; she is a rainbow when I'm feeling cloudy. To Tiffany: I'm so proud of you, and I am so excited to celebrate your and Blair's love and commitment to one another!