FAQs

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When's the RSVP deadline and how do I RSVP?

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Please RSVP by July 15th to ensure we can accommodate everyone comfortably! You can RSVP via our wedding website. Simply click on the RSVP tab, enter your name as indicated on your invite, and mark your attendance.

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How may we address the newlywed couple?

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- Mrs. Margaret Finaly & Mr. Blaine Harvey - Please note that Margaret is not changing her last name, therefore, kindly avoid address us as Mr. and Mrs. Harvey. Margaret adores her last name and does not wish to alter it.

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Are plus-ones allowed?

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Due to limited capacity at our venue, we can only accommodate guests formally listed on your wedding invitation. Thank you for understanding!

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Can we bring our kids?

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While we adore your children, our wedding is a 21+ event. It's important to us that parents have night off to be able to celebrate us and boogie the night away!! We thank you for making arrangements for this request.

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Where is the wedding ceremony & reception?

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Both the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will be in the yard of Margaret's childhood home.

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Why does the wedding invite say Rural Hill, but the address provided says Hermitage?

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Gerrymandering is the reason why! Rural Hill is an unincorporated part of Wilson County, south of Mt. Juliet and southeast of Hermitage proper. While the address says Hermitage, Rural Hill better describes the exact location of Margaret and Blaine's wedding venue.

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What is the dress code?

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- End of Summer Colorful Cocktail - We hope to look back at our wedding photos and see the full color spectrum present! Most importantly, we care that you're comfortable in the clothes you're in so nothing holds you back from joining the dance floor!

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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Our wedding will be entirely outdoors, on grass. Please wear appropriate footwear! Dinner and dancing will be underneath a sailcloth tent. Please be cognizant that it'll be late-summer weather with that good ole Tennessee humidity!

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Where can I park?

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We STRONGLY encourage you to rideshare or carpool to our wedding, as the neighborhood has very limited parking. Please be kind and considerate of our neighbors and do not park on both sides of the street.

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Is there a registry?

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Yes! Your presence is gift enough, but if you're feeling particularly generous, we ask that in lieu of physical gifts you kindly contribute to either our honeymoon fund or our future house down payment fund. Details on how to do so are provided on our registry page. We have a tiny apartment and we promise we have all the pots & pans we need!

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How early can I arrive to the venue?

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We kindly ask that you arrive no earlier than 30 minutes before the start of the ceremony; 5PM at the earliest.

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Are there accommodations near the venue or hotel blocks?

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There are several hotels near the venue (please peruse the Accommodations tab). There will not be hotel block accommodations, as some guests may wish to stay closer to the heart of Nashville. We'd be happy to give you recommendations anywhere around the Nashville area!

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Is it okay to take pictures with our phones during the ceremony?

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Hey, screenagers! Get off yer dang phones!!! We want y'all to be present and not experience your evening through a screen. Open your peepers and take everything in--our photographers gotcha covered.

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What menu options will be available for those with dietary restrictions?

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Our dinner will be buffet-style, offering a couple of proteins, various veggies and gluten-free options. Kindly let us know if we should be aware of any dietary restrictions if not accommodated that may prevent you from enjoying your evening to the fullest.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes!

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What time will the reception end?

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In respect of our neighbors, the end of the reception will be at 10:30PM. That doesn't mean the party is over though!!

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Where's the after party gonna be at?!

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If you're still wanting to rock your dancing shoes, we're gonna boot scoot over to the bars in East Nashville to keep the party going!

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Hey! I don't see the answer to my question!!

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Please reach out to Blaine or Margaret and we'd be happy to answer any of your questions!