Wedding Party
Christine Bohlin
Matron of Honor
Christine is Jesse's sister and has become one of Nicole's closest friends. They met while Christine was visiting Jesse in California a few years ago and immediately hit it off. When Nicole moved to Oklahoma City the two of them grew even closer through their mutual love of the outdoors, enthusiasm for health & fitness, and commitment to their faith. Christine is a steady source of warmth and wisdom in Nicole's life. Her compassionate nature shines through in everything she does, and her thoughtful perspective brings calm and clarity to any moment. She leads with kindness, supports with grace, and is someone everyone feels lucky to have in their corner. Christine’s and Nicole's growing sisterhood is one of the most treasured blessings of this new chapter.
Chantel Perez
Maid of Honor
Chantel has known Nicole since high school. They’ve been inseparable since the moment their Spanish teacher sat them next to each other. She thought Nicole would keep Chantel focused — HA! Little did she know she was introducing two lifelong friends. They've grown up together, witnessing each other’s challenges, triumphs, and everything in between. Over the years, they encouraged one another to become the confident, fierce, and independent women they are today. Chantel brings out Nicole's goofy side and accepts her exactly as she is, no judgment, just love and laughter. She is the kind of friend you can count on in any situation — calm in a crisis, quick to act, and always ready to help without hesitation. Whether it’s offering a steady hand, a clear head, or simply showing up when it matters most, she’s a true anchor in life’s unexpected moments.
Kaitlin Brod
Bridesmaid
Kaitlin is not just Nicole's cousin — she’s the sister Nicole was meant to have, the one who’s been there through it all. From childhood memories of dancing in the living room with over-the-top flair, to epic Nerf gun battles that transformed the hallways into full-blown war zones. Then there were those late-night pranks on their brothers — some of which were *definitely* more successful than others. (Sorry, Blake and Collin, but that nail polish really did look good, didn’t it?) Their bond has always been full of laughter, creativity, and the kind of mischief only the closest of souls can share. Through every laugh and mischievous moment, Kaitlin taught Nicole what it means to be fiercely yourself and to love wholeheartedly. Kaitlin is more than family — she’s been a constant source of strength and joy, a true companion through life’s journey.
Brittany Flynn
Bridesmaid
Brittany’s presence in Nicole’s life is one of those rare gifts that grows deeper and more meaningful with time. What began as a cherished friendship through family blossomed into something extraordinary — a bond built on unwavering support, laughter, and a love that is pure and unconditional. Brittany has a way of always knowing just what to say and making everything feel lighter and brighter simply by being there. Her heart is one that sparkles with joy and warmth, effortlessly lighting up any room she enters. With her infectious spirit and steadfast loyalty, Brittany is more than just a friend; she is a rock, a confidante, and a constant reminder of the beauty of true friendship. Nicole is beyond blessed to have such an incredible soul by her side — someone who not only makes life more joyful but who embodies everything that friendship should be. The love and strength Brittany brings to Nicole’s life are gifts that will last forever.
Rachel Patten
Bridesmaid
Though Rachel and Nicole have known each other for only a short time, their connection feels anything but new. What began as a family bond quickly grew into a deep friendship rooted in faith and mutual love. Rachel played a profound role in Nicole’s spiritual journey — guiding her toward Christ and sharing in the moment of her baptism. With her tenacious spirit and altruistic heart, Rachel has shown Nicole the beauty of vulnerability, trust, and genuine connection. Her loving and creative nature has become a light in Nicole’s life, helping guide her through the difficult transitions that come with each new season. Nicole is blessed to have Rachel stand beside her as she prepares for the next chapter of her life, and gains not one, but two sisters.
Katie Lindseth
Bridesmaid
Katie and Nicole’s relationship began as strangers brought together through a shared circle of friends, but it didn’t take long for a genuine friendship to form. Over the years, Nicole has had the joy of watching Katie grow into a devoted partner and loving wife to her dear friend Alan — a transformation that has only deepened Nicole’s admiration for her. Katie's humor, honesty, and thoughtfulness bring warmth and laughter wherever she goes. Fiercely loyal and protective, Katie is the kind of friend who stands by those she loves without hesitation. Through the way she loves and is loved in return, she’s shown Nicole what it means to build a relationship grounded in trust, respect, and genuine partnership. To Nicole, Katie is more than a friend — she’s a steadfast presence whose love and loyalty have made a lasting mark on her heart.
Alan Lindseth
Bridesman
Alan and Nicole’s story began all the way back in kindergarten when their moms became friends. Forced to hang out at Alan's house after school, the two would roll their eyes at the thought of being stuck spending even more time together. What started as playful annoyance quickly grew into a lifelong friendship that feels more like family. From children who could have cared less about one another, to adults attending each others weddings, Alan and Nicole's friendship is an example of what childhood friendship looks like. Genuine and unapologetically himself, Alan brings humor, honesty, and heart to every moment. Beneath his jokes lies a deeply thoughtful and loving friend who has always been there for Nicole, no matter the season of life. His example has become a gentle guide, showing what it means to love and be loved with sincerity. Having him stand with Nicole is a testament to their loyal and steady friendship.
Micah Patten
Best Man
From the beginning, Micah has been the steady, familiar presence in Jesse’s life. Their story is stitched together with all the classic childhood antics, including the day Micah accidentally “solved” Jesse’s headache with a well-aimed pine cone. It’s a memory that still makes everyone laugh. As they grew older, Micah became more than just a partner in chaos. He was a refuge when Jesse needed grounding, especially in matters of faith, offering encouragement, understanding, and a safe place to land. In every season, Micah’s support has been the kind you feel more than you hear: steady, deliberate, and deeply sincere. Whether it’s his work, his family, or his faith, Micah gives 100% of himself — never halfway or without heart. His loyalty and his quiet strength are qualities Jesse has always admired and leaned on. Having Micah stand beside Jesse isn’t just a formality — it’s a reflection of a lifetime of brotherhood and shared memories.
Felipe Barrientos
Groomsman
Felipe came into Jesse’s life during their young adult church group, but it didn’t take long for their friendship to grow into something much deeper. From the start, Felipe had this way of seeing Jesse and gently pulling him out of his shell. With his outgoing spirit and generosity, Felipe has poured encouragement into Jesse’s life in all the ways that matter. He’s the one who pushes Jesse to grow and believe in himself more — never with pressure, just honesty. And in Jesse’s hardest seasons, Felipe didn’t just offer support; he showed up, offering the kind of presence that is dependable, patient, and grounded in real care. What Jesse cherishes most about Felipe is his lack of judgment. He’s the friend you can bring anything to — messy, complicated, honest — and know you’ll be met with understanding rather than criticism. Having him stand as a groomsman is more than a celebration of friendship; it’s a tribute to a brother-like bond that has shaped Jesse’s life in quiet, profound ways.
Carl Olsen
Groomsman
Jesse met Carl in New Zealand, back when the two of them sat across from each other at work — an arrangement that quickly went from casual desk placement to the beginning of an incredible friendship and one of the more meaningful connections Jesse made abroad. Over time, he and Jesse built a bond rooted in honesty, wit, and that rare kind of loyalty you don’t stumble upon often in life. His support has been unwavering, offered in the kind of quiet, consistent ways that stick with you long after the moment passes. And his humor — bone-dry and wildly unique — has been a source of levity and grounding for Jesse through every season. Having Carl stand beside Jesse is a full-circle moment: a reminder that the friendships we make across the world can carve out a permanent place in our hearts.
Christopher Pang
Groomsman
When Jesse first landed in Auckland, scrambling to find a place to live, he stumbled across Chris’s listing online — a post featuring what had to be the most suspicious looking front door photo ever. But when he arrived he discovered a beautiful townhome in one of Auckland’s nicest neighborhoods. More importantly, Jesse found a flat mate who would become one of the defining friendships of his time in New Zealand. What started as a practical housing solution quickly turned into something much more meaningful. Through Brooklyn Nine-Nine marathons, Gandalf-saxophone shenanigans, and countless late-night conversations, Chris became the friend who made a foreign country feel like home. In a season where everything was new, Chris offered stability. To have Chris stand as a groomsman today is to honor a friendship that was formed out of chance and one that continues despite the distance.
Christopher Bohlin
Groomsman
What began as a brother-in-law relationship quickly turned into a genuine, easygoing friendship — one filled with shared jokes, long conversations, and a mutual appreciation for each other’s company. When Jesse and Chris are in the same room, you can guarantee one of two things is happening: either they’re laughing so hard they can barely finish a sentence, or they’ve somehow wandered into an intense, deeply intellectual debate that no one else can quite follow. That blend of wit, warmth, and sharp insight is exactly what makes Chris such a joy to be around. Smart, charismatic, and grounded, Chris brings out the best in the people around him. He’s the kind of person who makes every gathering better, every conversation richer, and every moment lighter. Jesse didn’t just gain a brother when Christine got married — he gained a true friend. Having Chris stand beside Jesse is a reminder of how lucky he feels that his sister chose so well, and how grateful he is for the bond they’ve built — one rooted in laughter, respect, and a whole lot of heart.
Erik Trujillo
Groomsman
Jesse met Erik when they both worked at RJ&A in Gilroy. What began as a simple workplace introduction quickly turned into something much bigger. Before long, Erik had become part of Jesse’s core circle — a group of friends who shared laughs, life updates, and the kind of everyday moments that quietly build lifelong bonds. The real turning point came the day Erik and his wife, Arely, announced that they were “adopting” Jesse. And from that moment on, he wasn’t just a friend; he was family. Erik is genuine in the way that puts people at ease, honest in a way that earns trust instantly, and funny in the way that makes even ordinary days memorable. Whether it was hanging out after work, talking about life, or diving into video games with Jesse and Ryan, Erik helped shape a season of friendship defined by comfort, authenticity, and connection. Having Erik stand as a groomsman is a recognition of a bond that formed naturally, grew steadily, and has stayed strong ever since—a friendship built on laughter, real conversations, and the simple joy of knowing you have people who choose you as family.
Caroline Seifert
Groomswoman
Caroline and Jesse also met at RJ&A, where she coerced a friendship out of him through sheer persistence and lighthearted bullying. It started with small things: the way she would march over to his perfectly organized desk and immediately undo his hard work — the highlighters never stood a chance! What began as playful workplace chaos grew into an extremely meaningful friendship. Through long days at the office, shared frustrations, ridiculous inside jokes, and lunch time runs that were equal parts exercise and therapy, they built a friendship rooted in honesty, laughter, and the kind of genuine care that can only come from someone who shows up wholeheartedly. Caroline didn’t just brighten Jesse’s workdays; she helped shape an entire chapter of his life with her unwavering enthusiasm. Having her stand beside Jesse is a celebration of a friendship born from chaos, strengthened by shared stories, and cherished for the light, warmth, and unstoppable energy she brings wherever she goes.
Ryan Lindseth
Groomsman
Ryan holds a rare place in both Nicole & Jesse’s lives as one of the few people woven deeply into each of their stories long before they were fully written. Nicole has known Ryan since childhood, back when she was in kindergarten with his brother, Alan. Over the years, Ryan became one of her closest friends. Then came Jesse. The two met at RJ&A, and from day one, something just clicked. Their conversations came easy, their humor matched effortlessly, and Ryan’s shy-but-goofy charm made him an instant friend in Jesse’s new environment. It didn’t take long before Ryan found himself with two people he cared about deeply. Little did he know the important role he would play in his friends lives — the day he introduced Nicole & Jesse at a backyard BBQ, unknowingly sparking the beginning of a love story. Ryan is the friend who supports without seeking recognition, who listens, encourages, and laughs along with you in the moments that matter most. Having Ryan stand beside them today is more than an honor — it’s a tribute to the friend who helped bring them together, who walked alongside them long before they ever walked toward each other, and who continues to be one of the most genuine people in their lives.