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September 21, 2025
Fallbrook, CA

Rudy + Birdie

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Question

when should I RSVP by?

Answer

To help us with our planning, we ask that you kindly RSVP by July 31st, 2025. If we do not receive your RSVP by then, we will have to unfortunately mark you as a "no". This is because we do need to provide the venue & caterer with a total guest count in a timely manner, and we hope that you understand.

Question

can I bring a plus one?

Answer

Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate additional guests outside of predetermined plus ones allocated via your wedding rsvp. When you RSVP it will show you the names of who we invited, it will specify if we have granted you a guest or not.

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will there be food?

Answer

Yes! We will be serving hors d'oeuvres throughout the cocktail hour and will have buffet stations during the reception. Vegetarian options will be available as well!

Question

can I bring my kid?

Answer

Once you get to the RSVP part of the invitation, if your child is specifically listed on the page, they are welcome! (However, if you or you and your partner would prefer a date night out without the kids, also fine by us) If they are not on the RSVP part of the invitation, unfortunately we won't be able to accommodate them - we hope you can understand!

Question

is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes! We are asking our guests to dress up with us! Formal wear is requested. For men this might mean a jacket and tie or traditional suit. If that is not your style any button up with dress pants are allowed. ABSOLUTELY NO FLIP-FLIPS OR SANDALS FOR MEN! For women, this means any floor length or midi length dresses. We are asking that guests do not wear green unless you were already asked to. Please keep in mind the wedding is indoor/outdoor, weather permitting of course. Refer to the dress code page for more help.

Question

is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

Answer

Yes, the venue will have onsite parking and many signs to show you exactly where to park.

Question

is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

Answer

Unfortunately, we will not be providing transportation for guests but with that in mind please plan ahead to either order Ubers or drive. We know our wedding is going to be so much fun so if you are planning on driving keep an eye on how much you are drinking. We do not condone drinking and driving.

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