Thomas & Victoria
Wedding Party
Robert (Bob) Bigs
Best Man
Robert “Bob” Bigs is the younger brother of the groom and couldn’t be more proud to stand by Thomas’s side as best man. Growing up, Bob was always someone Thomas could count on, and that bond has only gotten stronger over the years. Now a Navy SEAL, Bob brings a calm confidence, loyalty, and sense of responsibility to everything he does, and he’s the kind of person people naturally trust and respect. When he’s not serving his country, Bob’s usually on the golf course, where he’s a scratch golfer who makes it look easy. But more than any title or talent, Bob’s just a genuinely good dude. He shows up, looks out for the people he loves, and brings a steady, positive presence wherever he goes, which makes him the perfect choice to stand with Thomas and Victoria on their wedding day.
Matthew (Matt) Smalls
Groomsman
Matthew “Matt” Smalls is Victoria’s younger brother and is thrilled to be part of Thomas and Victoria’s wedding celebration. Matt works as a wealth manager at Goldman Sachs, where he’s known for his sharp instincts, strong work ethic, and thoughtful approach to everything he does. Outside of work, Matt loves getting off the grid and into the water. He’s an avid scuba diver who enjoys exploring beneath the surface whenever he can, always chasing his next adventure. Easygoing, curious, and dependable, Matt brings a great balance of professionalism and fun, and Thomas and Victoria are lucky to have him by their side on such a special day.
Jason (Jase) Carnelli
Groomsman
Jason “Jase” Carnelli is a close friend of the groom and has been part of Thomas’s life since their college days at UNC. The two met through their fraternity and quickly became close, bonding over long days on campus, late nights with friends, and countless hours playing lacrosse together. Those years built a friendship rooted in loyalty, shared memories, and plenty of laughs. Today, Jase runs his own hedge fund, bringing the same drive and competitiveness that defined him on the lacrosse field into his professional life. He’s sharp, motivated, and always pushing himself to the next level, but he never forgets where he came from or the friendships that shaped him. Thomas is grateful to have Jase standing with him, representing years of friendship and shared history.