Welcome to our big, fat, italian wedding
Wedding Party
Lee Bahlkow
Officiant
Steph's step-father and most loving human. Kevin and Steph have spent lots of time with Lee (mostly playing spades) where he's gotten to know the two of them as a couple. It is an honor to be married by him, and we are looking forward to it!
Ryan Andoos
Best Man
We owe Ryan literally everything, as it is his farm we will be tying the knot on! Ryan is one of a kind and Kev's best friend. You'll want to find him because he will be passing out some wedding favors ;)
Joanna Pavone
Matron of Honor
Steph's little sister who is admittedly the fun sibling. She's known for doing the worm at weddings, so definitely ask her to do this. Joanna and Steph are known for thinking the same thing at the same time, so it's no surprise their weddings were only 4 months apart.
Nikoletta Shivers
Maid of Honor
Steph's standing Tuesday date night, co-creator of the longest voice notes in history, and person who is down to hop on a plane and see the world. Even with the men in their lives they remain each other's forever plus 1 (Kevin is still jealous Nikole brought Steph to Dubai). The memories with Nikole are endless, and it's an honor (no pun intended) to have this Greek Goddess as Maid of Honor.
Valerie Bahlkow
Mother of the Bride
There is no way you will be able to miss, Val-she has been wanting this day to come for a long time because she loves nothing more than celebrating her family. She has been a huge help in the planning process...and had TWO weddings to plan this year... so give her a hug when you see her!
Phyllis Ammirati
Mother of the Groom
This little lady is known for making a mean meatball, but she's off duty for the wedding (we tried). You won't be able to miss her, because she is a spitting image of Kevin! Kevin is also known as Phyllis' baby (thanks, Phyllis!!) but it's ok because he got his heart of gold from her.
Joe Pavone
Father of the Bride
No description needed when your personality is larger than life. Often confused for Steph's older brother, this guy will be the life of the party, and you can find him on the dancefloor. Him and Kevin also have a cute bromance going on, and Kev plans to visit Joe in FL this upcoming winter.
Ralph Ammirati
Father of the Groom
Ralph has two wedding requests: coffee with dessert and do not run out of food. He serves as our inspiration for our big fat Italian wedding. Stephanie also has Ralph to thank for Kevin being able to fix literally anything!
Michael Ammirati
Groomsman
Kevin's older brother who will be joined by his beautiful wife, Stef (two Stef/Stephanie Ammirati's?!) We are grateful to him and Stef for our nephew and niece, Luke & Stella. Mike is also a big fan of Ketel One Vodka, so do this guy a favor and give him a shot. It's on us!
Shayna McLaughlin
Bridesmaid
When you see Shay, please refer to her as "Shoo," Steph's nickname for her since high school. Shayna & Steph share so many fun memories - Volleyball, Newport, Yacht Week...the list goes on. Kevin should watch out, because Shay and Steph plan to grow old together and play cards when they are 80 years old.
Nick Arroyo
Groomsman
Nick shares Kevin's love of gaming, and will likely have an outrageous outfit he changes into (we are here for it)! Nick holds a special place in Steph's heart because, after only three weeks of dating, he let Steph use his parents house for Kevin's 30th bday party.
Jamie Arias
Bridesmaid
A true ride or die, Jamie and Steph have so many memories galavanting through NYC to the Hamptons to Greece...and now they work together at Diageo! An added bonus is sneaking away for a coffee break to catch up on ALL THE THINGS.
Maji Ramirez
Bridesmaid
Co-worker turned good friend, Maji and Steph were each other's wing woman's. Steph used to spend hours at Maji's desk re-counting the horrific dates and asking her to decode texts from NYC f*ck boys. 2017 us would find it unreal that she is now shooting our engagement pics!
Chris Barroca
Groomsman
Our Portuguese Stallion who brings out the European in us all with his homemade wine and taste in food. Chris and Kev go way back, from high school to playing football. Chris won over Steph's heart with his impeccable planning skills and love of crypto. He is also getting married next year so tell him congrats when you see him!
Andrea Bongiovi
Bridesmaid
While she isn't related to THE Bon Jovi, she's the only Bongiovi we need. Steph's longtime friend from her Boston days, she is like family now. When she visits, we often kick Kev out because we need time to lump on the couch with no questions during our shows. She also runs a side hustle called "The Saucy Scorpio" and you may see some of her work on the farm.
Kenny Arbucci
Groomsman
Mr. Arbucci is another icon in the bridal party, as one of Kev's longest friends. Him and Kev share many memories - from trips to Bali to running a farm and company together during the pandemic. He also didn't shy away from coming to NYC during covid, bonding with Steph instantly. Ken most recently just renovated his entire house so if you have questions on home improvements, he is your guy!
Brianna Blaney
Bridesmaid
When you see Bri, you can call her "Boo" like Steph does, or you can ask her any questions related to baking (unfortunately we will not have samples at the wedding). Steph and Bri share so many memories and both were setters on their high school volleyball team. Fun fact: she is a triplet and someone else in the bridal party is her sister. You can spend the wedding guessing who!
Matt Criscuola
Groomsman
Pull up a seat and chat up Kevin's cousin, Matt. He is one of the most entertaining humans you'll come across. If you happen to enjoy a good conspiracy theory, Matt's your guy.
Justin Carbone
Usher
Justin is Steph's brother from another. The Carbone and Pavone families have been close for over 60 years-starting with our grandparents who were best friends. Having spent many summers together at their shared property Upstate - this family is family. Justin is also Steph's fitness inspo- this guy is jacked. If you need tips on how to exercise or eat well-he will happily tell you. But most importantly, if you can't find your seat- this guy will help you!
Madison & Sofia
Flower Girl
Daughters of Kevin's beautiful sister, Michele, meet our adorable twin nieces who bring us so much joy! These two love to take pictures, known for making selfies a lot better. They might just let you snap one on the dance floor!
Stella
Flower Girl
Our niece, and commonly known as "Stella Uncle Kevin," because of her shared love of bread and pasta. This little angel will make you laugh all night if you get to talk to her.
Jake
Ring Bearer
Jake is the oldest of the 5 nieces and nephews. He reminds Stephanie of Kevin because he loves to game and is a sweetheart. Jake has a huge heart and is a lot of fun!
Luke
Ring Bearer
Luke is Kevin's godson who always makes us laugh. He loves to play games, and if you happen to bring Legos to the wedding, Luke will be down to play with you. Warning: he will probably beat you.