FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by May 23, 2026. This deadline allows us enough time to finalize important details, including seating arrangements, catering, and other plans to ensure a smooth and enjoyable day for everyone. If we don’t hear from you by this date, we’ll follow up to confirm your attendance.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony starts promptly at 3:30 PM. We recommend arriving by 3:00 PM to find your seat and enjoy the pre-ceremony music.

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Is there a dress code?

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Wear what makes you feel comfortable, beautiful, and yourself! If you'd like to coordinate with our optional color scheme, we’re going with pinks and greens. Keep in mind the ceremony is outdoors, so plan for the weather.

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Can I bring a date?

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Invitations are addressed by name, and any children or plus-ones included will be specifically listed on your invitation. We hope you understand that we wish to share this day with those who mean the most to us. If we haven’t had the chance to meet your partner and they are not included on your invitation, we kindly ask that you join us in mingling with the wonderful guests in attendance.

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Are kids welcome?

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Absolutely! We love kids and can’t wait to celebrate with them. However, please note that there won’t be specific activities planned for children, so we kindly ask that parents keep an eye on their little ones throughout the day. If you think supervising them will take away from your enjoyment, we completely understand if you choose to leave them with a sitter.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Our catering will feature a buffet provided by the College Inn! Dishes will include: Sausage & Peppers, Fettuccini Alfredo, Parsley Redskin Potatoes, Cheesy Hashbrowns, a house salad and rolls. While we are doing our best to accommodate dietary needs with our array, if you’re concerned about allergens or prefer something different, you’re welcome to bring your own food. Please let us know in advance if this applies to you so we can help make arrangements.

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Will the ceremony be outdoors?

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Yes! Our ceremony will take place outside, weather permitting. We’ll have parasols, fans, and mini waters available to help keep everyone comfortable, but they’ll be offered on a first-come, first-served basis. Please plan accordingly for sunny or warm weather.

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How will the bar work?

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The bar will be located on the lower level to provide a more family-friendly reception space in the Sanctuary. While the Sanctuary won’t be completely dry, alcohol will only be served downstairs. The bar will offer beer, wine, and our signature bride and groom cocktails. Please note: - Alcohol must be served by our licensed bartender, so no BYOB. - If the selection isn’t your vibe, feel free to pregame responsibly before you arrive!

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes, we’ve created an online registry through Zola. As we already live together, we’re primarily asking for contributions toward our honeymoon to help us start our marriage with an unforgettable getaway. However, we’ll still gladly accept gifts if you choose to bring something special to the wedding. Your presence is truly the greatest gift, and we will have a card box and gift table available for those who wish to contribute.