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FAQs

"put our service to the test, tie your napkin 'round your neck, cherie, and we'll provide the rest!" -lumeire
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Where is the wedding ceremony and reception taking place?

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Our Ceremony and Reception will all be onsite at Vanderkamp NY. Vanderkamp NY is located at 204 County Rte 17, Bernhards Bay, NY 13028. Please note there is no onsite overnight lodging or accommodations for wedding guests at VK. Please see Travel page for hotel recommendations.

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When should I RSVP by?

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RSVPs must be in by August 26th, 2026. Thank you for understanding.

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Is there a dress code?

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We're thrilled to celebrate with you! We kindly ask that guests wear semi-formal attire—think suits and dresses. Please avoid casual wear so we can all enjoy a polished, elegant evening together. Thank you!

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Are kids welcome?

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While we adore your children, this is a child-free event. Thank you for understanding.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We do! Please see our Hotels & Travel page on this website for our discounted hotel block and other recommended hotels. Book by August 31, 2026 to receive the best rate within our room block. We also have a "Things to Do" tab if you'd like to explore the area more.

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Will there be dancing?

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YES! Get your dancing shoes ready, and be ready to "bust a move". ;)

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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We want to know if you have an allergy! Please inform us when you RSVP.

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Will there be cell phone service?

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Seems like a crazy question, but cell phone service is spotty in the area. We recommend downloading the Google map of the area before you depart home, and follow signage as you approach our venue. We're looking forward to a truly unplugged ceremony and reception with you.

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Can I bring a date?

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Those formally listed on your invitation and save the date are invited to our special day. This is a private, special event for us and you may not bring a date (plus one or additional guest) unless specifically mentioned on your invitation. Thank you for understanding.

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Is the wedding indoor or outdoors?

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Both! Our Ceremony will take place outdoors with a short walk across an unpaved, grassy knoll. Our Reception will take place indoors in Kempwick Hall. In true Dee & Josh form, we will have a firepit available later in the evening after dancing. Feel free to bring a change of clothes and hang out with us!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there will be complimentary onsite parking at Vanderkamp. Please follow signs to the Kempwick Hall where parking is located and our Reception will be held. Our Ceremony will be a short walk away from Kempwick Hall and the parking area. Please note the outdoor walk to our Ceremony is grassy and unpaved.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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There will not be provided transportation from hotels to the ceremony, or vice versa. Please consider carpooling, Ubers/Lyfts or local taxi's for a safe journey to and fro.

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Have a question we didn't answer?

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Let us know! Text us directly or email us at colombobest318 AT gmail dot com.