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Bernadette & Vito

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Where is the wedding located?

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All events are located at the Smithville Inn. Our ceremony and reception are planned to be held outdoors, weather permitting. In the event of rain, we will move the ceremony inside. We encourage you to bring an extra layer to stay cozy and comfortable as we celebrate together!

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Can I RSVP online or do I have to mail in an RSVP card?

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Please RSVP online as mail is hard to keep track of and not always reliable. We have made this website to make it easier on you and us to be kept in the loop.

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What date should I RSVP by?

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November 28th, 2025! We need one month in order to keep track with our vendors. Please try to RSVP before or ON the 28th!!

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What is the easiest way to get to and from your wedding venue(s)?

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There will be shuttles prior to the ceremony from Seaview Dolce Hotel to The Smithville Inn. Shuttles will also be available post reception and during the after party at Fred and Ethel's!

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Is there parking available near your wedding venue(s)?

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Yes, there is a parking lot across the street from the venue as well as inside the property. There are multiple lots and there will be signs for everything if you're driving once you arrive!!

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What is the dress code for your wedding?

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Our wedding will be black tie attire encouraged. Please come dressed up as we do not get to be as fancy as we can be on our wedding day. Floor length dresses and tux's or dark colored suits.

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Am I allowed to bring a plus one?

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Your invitation notes if you have a plus one! Our wedding is immediate family and close friends only, we want it to be as small and intimate as possible.

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Am I allowed to bring my children?

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Unless your child is in our wedding, we will not be having children for guests. We hope you are able to come and enjoy a night of celebration with us!

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What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?

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Our wedding begins at 4:30 promptly. Please arrive at our ceremony about 20 minutes early so everyone can get a seat and relax before the wedding begins!

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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

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Please refrain from using your cellphone during our wedding! We have two photographers who are hired to take our ceremony photos so you do not have to. We want our guests 100% focused on our union, we promise we can send out photos when they're recieved!

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