Ben and I met back in 2013 at Cordova Court Apartments. November of 2018 I lost my baby girl and was having a hard time coping, and there was a lady named Sandy who told me that he ended up going through the same thing and that maybe I should talk to him about it. Well as time went on I never approached him about the situation. One day I was heading to the laundry room and he stopped me and said, “sorry for your loss”. They told me that you lost your baby and I said, “yeah Thanksgiving day of 2018”. He said I understand how you feel because I lost my son when he was born. After that encounter we actually became good friends. We started hanging out and having lunch dates. We finally decided to make our relationship official as of April 7, 2020.