Yes.
Yes, absolutely, but they're still your responsibility. We recommend bringing some sound dampening ear muff as loud music is especially harsh on young ears.
Friday: Cider pressing has the potential to be messy business. If you want to be part of the action, wear something you don't particularly care about. If you are more of a socialite, wear something nice, but casual that doesn't scream city slicker, remember you never get a second chance to make a last impression. Saturday: It's a wedding, so feel free to dress up a bit, but it's outside, so no stiletto heels or shoes that will leave you stranded at the bottom of a grassy hill. We'd recommend a post ceremony & dinner change of clothes; it's a party, in Vermont, with a bunch of hippies & burners, make sure you're comfortable and festive, because shit could get weird.