FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by July 1, 2026. This will give us plenty of time to finalize our seating chart, confirm meal counts with our caterer, and make sure every detail is ready for our celebration on August 15. Any unanswered RSVP's will be treated as a “NO,” and your seat will not be reserved for dinner. Thank you for understanding.

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What’s the Dress Code?

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We kindly request that our guests wear semi-formal attire. Men are welcome to wear nice slacks or jeans with a button-down, and women can choose a nice dress, jumpsuit, or other polished outfit. If you’re attending the church ceremony, please make sure your attire is church‑appropriate. We want everyone to feel comfortable while still looking festive for the day!

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Can I take photos during the church ceremony?

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We kindly ask that you put away phones, cameras, and other devices during our church ceremony. We want everyone to be fully present with us in that moment. Don’t worry—our photographer will capture it all, and we can’t wait to share those memories with you afterward!

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Will there be assigned seating at the reception?

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Yes! Seating will be assigned at the reception to ensure everyone has a comfortable place to sit and enjoy the evening. For this reason, only guests listed on the invitation will be accommodated.

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Will there be a shuttle after the dance?

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Yes! A shuttle bus will be provided but only for guests staying at the Gateway Hotel in Tea. We will not be providing shuttle service to other locations. There are two shuttle departure times: 11:00 PM and 12:00 AM.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If your invitation does not include a plus one and you’d like to bring a guest, please contact Benjamin or Aubrey in advance. Seating is assigned at the reception, so any additional guests must be added to the RSVP ahead of time.

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Can I bring my kids?

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Yes, children are welcome! Let one of us know if we missed anyone on your RSVP who will need a chair, and we will make accommodations. We’d love to have the whole family celebrate with us.

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Need to get in touch with us?

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We’re here to help with any questions or updates you might have! Feel free to reach out directly: Aubrey: 701-425-1649 Benjamin: 605-610-5912 Whether it’s about RSVPs, travel plans, or anything else—we’re just a text or call away!