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June 23, 2018
Chula Vista, CA
#benandginny2018

Benjamin & Virginia

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please respond within two weeks of receiving your invitation. If you need more time, please let us know.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes, we're registered here on the Zola website! You can scroll up and click the Registry tab or visit www.zola.com/registry/benandginny2018. Zola makes it easy to give us a gift online, but they take 2.5%, so don't feel obligated to use this feature. We are asking for monetary gifts because of our space limitations.

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What is the dress code?

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Somewhere between cocktail and dressy casual. Like, wear your little black dress but ditch the heels and wear your Chucks. Guys, if you wear jeans, try to make them your Sunday best.

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Can I bring a date?

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Only if they're named on the invitation. Don't worry, if we sent your invitation stag, you'll definitely have someone to talk with.

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Someone in my party can't make it. Can I bring someone else instead?

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No. We want to know everyone present at our wedding. In the the event that a guest is unable to attend, the seat will be filled with someone we know.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please, be in your seats before 4:00 pm.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, the California Yacht Marina will have free parking the day of the event. No need to repark between the ceremony and reception. The gate will close at midnight (even though the sign says 6:00 pm) so if you need to leave your car there, you can pick it up in the morning.

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Is there dinghy parking available?

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Yes! You are more than welcome to make the trip by water and dock your dinghy at the California Yacht Marina Excursion Dock (where the Schooner Bill Of Rights is parked).

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So you live on a boat?

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A: Yes, we do. It's a Catalina 34 Mark I. Q: So when are you guys going to settle down and buy a house? A: ... we're planning on getting a bigger boat. Q: What about all your stuff? A: We don't have any. Everything has it's place so when we buy something new, we get rid of something old.

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What's the alcohol policy?

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We will be pleased to provide and open bar with beer and wine. If you want other libations, please bring your own flask. There is nonalcoholic sparkling cider for guests who don't drink.

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I enjoyed your open bar too much. Now what?

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If you drink, don't drive. Your car will be safe at the marina overnight and Lyft is cheap. If you don't have the Lyft app, talk to the groom, he'll order a car for you.

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