FAQs

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When & Where is the wedding?

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Our wedding will take place on April 11, 2026, at 3:30 pm. Our ceremony and reception will be held in Ashville, NY at Whittier Apple Farm.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by March 14th, so we can plan accordingly. If we don’t hear from you, we’ll assume you can’t make it.

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What time should I arrive?

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We recommend arriving by 3:15 pm, which is 15 minutes before the ceremony begins, to find your seat and settle in. The ceremony will begin sharply at 3:30 pm.

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What should I wear? What colors are okay?

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We completely understand how stressful it can be to pick the right outfit—it’s honestly one of our biggest fears too! Our dress code is cocktail attire: think dresses, jumpsuits, jackets, and slacks (no jeans, please). We’re not particular about colors, but just so you know: the bridesmaids will be in navy and the groomsmen in black—so if you'd rather not match, now you’re in the loop! Our biggest request: please refrain from wearing white. That color is reserved for the bride, and we’d love to keep it special for her.

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Can I bring a guest/my kids?

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We're so excited to celebrate this special day surrounded by our closest family and friends. Only those formally invited on your wedding invitation can be accommodated. If you have a plus one or kids invited, it will be noted on your invitation and when you RSVP.

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Will there be food and drinks? What about allergies?

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We’ll have a cocktail hour following the ceremony. (Meatballs, Charcuterie Board, and Caprese.) Dinner will be served buffet-style, and a cookie table for dessert. There will be an open bar almost the entire time. Please note any dietary needs or allergies on your RSVP form—we’ll do our best to accommodate you.

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be outdoors, held under a beautiful open-air pavilion with a concrete floor. Don’t worry about the weather—we’ve got you covered (literally)! The pavilion has large drop-down shades to protect you from rain or wind if needed. The reception will take place indoors in the barn right next to the pavilion. Make sure to bring your dancing shoes!!! Rain or shine, we’re prepared—and so excited to celebrate with you!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask guests to be present in the moment and keep their phones away during the ceremony. Our photographer (who is paid very well...) will capture everything! After that, please go wild taking photos! Be sure to scan the QR Code to share with the couple!

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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For those who wish to give, we’ve created a registry on Zola to help us celebrate our honeymoon and begin our life together. Gifts are never expected, but always appreciated. Thank you for being part of our journey!

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I still have questions - who can I contact

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Feel free to reach out to the bride, Courtney, at 724-712-7814.