We’d love for everyone to dress in a way that feels festive and polished! For men, think nicer than jeans—like slacks or chinos paired with a button-up shirt, polo or sweater. For women, a dress or a cute romper would be perfect. No need for formal wear, but let’s keep it stylish and celebration-ready! Keep in mind it will be a winter wedding in Michigan so it might be cold when choosing your outfit :)
We’re so grateful for the love and excitement surrounding our big day! Due to limited reception venue capacity and careful planning, we’re only able to accommodate guests who were included in the original RSVP list. We truly wish we could celebrate with everyone, and we appreciate your understanding and support.
Because the ceremony begins at 4pm, if you could arrive no later than 3:45pm, that will ensure that you can be seated and give the wedding party plenty of time to line up and get ready to go in without any interruptions.
While gifts aren't an expectation, they are greatly appreciated as we move into this next chapter of our lives! We have a registry linked and a large part of that registry is on amazon! If you want to shop for better deals than are listed on the registry for certain items, please feel free to do so (I'm a barging hunter myself), but if you get the item or something similar if you could mark the item as purchased that would be very helpful!
You will be missed! If you are unable to attend the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible by RSVPing “will not attend” for everyone who will not be able to make it. If anything changes before October 20, please just change your RSVP status. After that, please let either Nick or Beka know!
For the ceremony, Haven CRC in Zeeland has a pretty large parking lot where you can find a space to park. For the reception you should park at the 7th St. parking garage at 95 E 7th, Holland, MI 49423.
We have a wedding block reserved for anyone who is coming from out of town and would like to stay near the reception venue for a discounted rate. For more information, please go to the travel page on the website! https://www.zola.com/wedding/bekaandnick/travel
We will be catering Hog Wild BBQ. We will have chicken and pulled pork as our mains with mac and cheese, mashed potatoes, rolls and corn as our sides. We will also have some snacks sitting out during the cocktail hour between the wedding and reception and will have everyone's favorites after dinner with a dessert table.
We adore your little ones, but this celebration is just for the grown-ups! Think of it as a perfect excuse for a kid-free evening—get dressed up, enjoy a night out, and treat it like a well-deserved date night. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!