Kindly choose wedding attire with a splash of blue. We'd like for our guests to wear any shade of blue to be the lucky "something blue" on our day (Example: Ladies wear a blue dress or gentlemen wear a blue tie or shirt).
We love your littles, but due to space restrictions and venue location, we have decided on an adults-only ceremony and reception. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated.
We have reserved a block of rooms at AC Hotel St. Louis Chesterfield for Saturday, May 9th 2026 with checkout on Sunday, May 10th, 2026. Please visit the "Hotel" page of this website to find the link.
Yes! There is a large parking lot at the venue.
Yes, Lyft and Uber are typically available in Defiance. We highly recommend scheduling your Lyft or Uber in advance. Please consider the remoteness of our venue and potential for driving hazards when arranging your transportation from the reception to your accommodations.
We are not allowing additional plus-ones to our wedding, as we'd like to keep the guests list just to those who know us well. The name of every guest invited to attend is clearly listed on your invitation and no additional guests can be accommodated.
Please RSVP before March 3rd, 2026!
If you need to change your RSVP (menu choice or attendance), please contact us directly at (618) 978-0145.
Yes! We will have a shuttle running between Defiance Ridge and AC Hotel every 30 minutes. The first shuttle leaves the hotel at 4:30 pm and the last shuttle leaves the venue at 11:30.