Wedding Guest Support Center

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What to Wear (So We Don’t Roast You Later)

Answer

If Seamus and Darby could talk, they’d say, “dress nice, but don’t overdo it — we’re still dogs”. We just want you to feel amazing and avoid looking like you just rolled out of bed. Men: pants, button-up/collared shirt, sport coat optional but admired. Women: cocktail dresses, midi or maxi dresses, jumpsuits, or anything that says, "I might dance on tables later". In short: dress like you’re meeting your soulmate’s parents at a winery… because, well, you kind of are. P.S. - bonus points for dog hair; it’s kind of a staple in our house.

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A Little Love Note About +Ones

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Our venue has a pretty specific guest count limit, so with that in mind, we’re only able to accommodate the guests listed on your invitation. If you’ve received a +one, you’ll see their name when you RSVP. We hope you understand and know how grateful we are to have you as part of this day. Thanks for rolling with us—we can’t wait to party with you!

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Is there a hotel block for guests?

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Yes! Our wedding venue has rooms on site and would love to have you (and so would we!). Our room block opens up to the public August 17th, so don't wait! Details below: Please call the venue / hotel @ 951-694-9070, press option "1" to speak with the event staff (Robert or Vanessa is who you will speak to). Simply mention the Bruce / Rivers Wedding when you reserve your room (must call the hotel directly to book; we know, how annoying). Please note: our hotel block only applies to the night of our wedding. If you wish to book an additional night, you will need to wait until 60 days prior to book; rooms the night before are held for another wedding until then. Apologies for any inconvenience!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! There are plenty of local options ranging from casual to a mini-staycation amongst the vines. Please see the travel page on our website for recommendations.

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Is there parking available?

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Yes! There will be plenty of free parking available at the venue.