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We can't wait to celebrate with you! Please make sure to RSVP below.
We can't wait to celebrate with you! Please make sure to RSVP below.

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When do we need to RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by January 18th :) You can RSVP using the tab in the menu. If you do not RSVP we will assume that you are unable to attend!

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Am I allowed to bring my own alcohol?

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Our venue has a strict policy that doesn't allow guests to bring their own alcohol, and unfortunately, they will have to ask anyone who does to leave the premises. But don’t worry! The venue will be providing a great selection of drinks throughout the event, so there will be plenty to enjoy!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive 10-15 minutes before the ceremony begins!

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What is the dress code?

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We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our big day! Bright spring-time colors are encouraged! Dress to impress in your best semi-formal cocktail attire!

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Can I bring a guest/date?

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Unfortunately, we're on a tight budget, so we simply can't afford for all of our lovely guests to bring a guest of their own. Plus ones are therefore by invitation only and we kindly ask other guests not to bring a plus one. Thank you so much for understanding!

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Are kids allowed?

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Invitations will be specific and will include the names of children who are invited. However, we encourage you to use this evening as a night out for yourself!!

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What do I do if I can't make it?

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You will be dearly missed! We just ask that you let us know as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

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Where do I park?

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The Weinberg has free on-site parking. Roads leading up to the venue are very windy, so if you plan to PARTY we encourage guests to uber/lyft.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We understand everyone wants to snap pictures of the big day, but we ask that once the ceremony begins all phones be silenced and put away. If you want to snap a quick picture please be discreet. We want our photographers to be able to capture the best pictures without a ton of phones sticking out into the aisle.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and reception will be indoors. Cocktail hour will be outdoors so long as the weather permits.

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