Jared & AliciaJared & Alicia
FAQsFAQs
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But what would I wear?! (queue the Grinch)But what would I wear?! (queue the Grinch)
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While black tie is optional, we would love to see our guests in all black for our special day! Gentlemen, give us your best James Bond impression, and ladies, here's your excuse to wear that pretty black dress you've been eyeing!
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Can I bring kids to the wedding?Can I bring kids to the wedding?
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To give all our guests the opportunity to celebrate without having to worry about little eyes and ears, we politely request no children.
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When is the RSVP deadline?When is the RSVP deadline?
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September 14th, 2025
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How do I RSVP?How do I RSVP?
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To keep ourselves sane and on track, we would absolutely love if you would RSVP online! There's a QR code on our invites to make it easy peasy!
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Where is the ceremony and reception?Where is the ceremony and reception?
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Both the Ceremony and Reception will be held at Binksberry Hollow in Wilson, NY.
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What time should we arrive?What time should we arrive?
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Our ceremony will start at 4:30, we request you arrive before 4:15. Refreshments will be available by the Market in the Hollow prior to the ceremony!
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Will there be a shuttle to and/or from the hotel?Will there be a shuttle to and/or from the hotel?
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We will not be able to provide transportation at this time, however please be safe and call an Uber if you party a little too hard!
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What will the weather be like?What will the weather be like?
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October in New York… we can only hope for sunny and 65!
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Can I take pictures during the ceremony/post on social media?Can I take pictures during the ceremony/post on social media?
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We request that we are the first ones to post any photographs of our wedding. For everyone to be able to enjoy the ceremony, we ask that all cell phones are turned on silent and hidden away!
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What happens between the ceremony and reception?What happens between the ceremony and reception?
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We will have an amazing cocktail hour hosted by the venue while we get our photos taken and enjoy a moment to ourselves to revel in our big day!
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What food will be served and what if I have dietary restrictions?What food will be served and what if I have dietary restrictions?
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We will have many options for food, but please let us know as soon as possible if you have any dietary restrictions!
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What time is the reception scheduled to end?What time is the reception scheduled to end?
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The reception will be ending at 10pm, but we will be adding a small after party until 11 around a fire outside the venue.
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Where are you registered?Where are you registered?
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We are extremely lucky to have incredible people invited to our wedding, and want to say that we do not expect any gifts or contributions to our big day. We are also lucky to be able to have everything we need for our home, therefore we have set up a Honeymoon Fund if you feel inclined to gift us, or choose from a few items we fell in love with! Please see the Registry tab for more information!
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We have questions that haven't been addressed here - who should we contact?We have questions that haven't been addressed here - who should we contact?
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Please feel free to contact Alicia at 315.591.8573 or Jared at 716.969.1301