FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes! Semi-Formal, please come dressed in ALL BLACK attire. Children included. Women: Any style or length black dress Men: Black suits with white or black button up, tie optional

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Where should I stay?

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Somewhere with a comfy bed, preferably not ours. We’ll list a few nearby hotels that won’t break the bank (unless you raid the minibar). We'll be staying at the Marriott Phoenix Chandler Hotel within walking distance to the venue.

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Are kids welcome?

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While we adore your little ones, we’re only including children from our extended families. If your children are invited, their names will appear on the RSVP page. Just know all unruly children will be thrown into the fountain!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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15 minutes early is on time. On time is late. Late means you’ll be stuck watching us exchange vows through the magic of Instagram Live, and we both know you’d rather be in the front row.

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Can I bring a date?

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If they're on the invitation, they’re invited! If not… we still love you, but this time it’s a party for the names listed on the envelope. (We promise it’s not personal—we just have to keep our guest list from turning into Coachella.)

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What if I have a food allergy?

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You’ll be publicly shamed, but appropriately accommodated. Just let us know in advance so we don’t accidentally try to kill you with a peanut.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Kindly let us know by February 15, 2026—because nothing says romance like committing to a wedding Valentine’s Weekend. If you miss the deadline, we’ll assume you’ve chosen a life of mystery and solitude… or just don’t want cake. Your call.

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Is there an open bar?

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Do you even know us? Yes. But pace yourself — no one wants to be that guest in the background of all our photos.

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Where are you registered?

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We’re in the process of finalizing our registry, so check back later for the “Registry” tab on our website! It’s where all our hopes, dreams, and kitchen gadgets will live.