Q&A

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Why is the wedding in Bacolod?

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Bacolod City, aside from being dubbed as the "City of Smiles", is the ideal wedding destination for Bea and Kurt as it has the significance and deeper meaning for Kurt growing up in this humble city. This deep origin of going back to one's roots made perfect sense when Bea first visited the City of Smiles and embraced how sentimental it is for Kurt to celebrate his wedding day in the places that made him who he is now. Kurt started at an early age serving the Parish and Shrine of St. Jude Thaddeus in Barangay Alijis as an Altar Server. He has lived his life of service in this parish community serving in different ministries, organizations, and helped build the Basic Ecclesial Communities. From then, he has served hundreds if not thousands of couples get married and exchanged their vows and "I do's". Kurt made a promise to himself that one day, he will offer himself and his significant other to the altar of St. Jude Thaddeus Parish and Shrine. True to his promise, Kurt brought Bea to St. Jude Thaddeus Parish, sharing with her this cherished part of his life. In a moment of vulnerability, he asked her if the aisle was long enough—knowing Bea had always dreamed of a long walk to the altar. With a smile, she said yes—her very first yes to him, even before the proposal. Now, they look forward to walking that same aisle together, just like the many couples Kurt has seen before them. They will exchange their vows, say their I do’s, and seal their love, faith, and hope in the sacred bond of marriage. And of course, what’s a Bacolod celebration without its #NamitGid food?

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Where is the Wedding Venue?

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⛪ WEDDING CEREMONY: St. Jude Thaddeus Parish and Shrine, Barangay Alijis. Google Maps: https://maps.app.goo.gl/qKbXsE5hpnAmc5Ww6 🍽️ WEDDING RECEPTION: Santuario de La Salle, University of St. La Salle. Google Maps: https://maps.app.goo.gl/Gkr1wiLo3R4mbanY8 You can check out more details in our Wedding Day page on this website.

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How do we travel between Ceremony and Reception?

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We are providing a shuttle service available to transport guests from designated pick-up points. Look for the shuttle service with a sign and banner: "Bea & Kurt June 28, 2025" PICK-UP / DROP OFF POINTS: 📍1: Park Inn By Radisson Bacolod 📍2: Seda Capitol Central The shuttle will depart at exactly 01:00 P.M. from the pick-up points and will take guests to the ceremony and reception. It will also be available to drop you off after the party. You may arrange your own transportation or choose from the designated pick-up points. If you prefer to travel on your own, kindly inform our wedding partners in advance so we can accommodate our other guests accordingly. Our wedding coordinators and partners will be assisting you in your designated transportation groups. Should you wish to join the shuttle service from the designated pins above, kindly confirm in the RSVP page.

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Do I need to RSVP?

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YES! This is to ensure that you are included in the FINAL GUEST LIST and for us to reserve a seat for you. You may contact either Bea or Kurt through their respective socials or you may do this through the RSVP page on this website. If we do not hear feedback from you, we will take this as a note that you are not able to join us on our big day. We look forward in catching up instead!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We have carefully put a good thought on our guest list, and we ask that you refer to your wedding invitation for the number of seats assigned to you or your party. While we would love to have more loved ones join us, we also need to be mindful of the resources available for our celebration.

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Can we sit wherever we like?

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We do not have a Seat Selector option offered on this flight of a lifetime, but we will carefully assign your seats together with people you will be comfortably engaging and have meaningful conversations with. You may reach out to our wedding partners who will check you in, give you your boarding pass, and board you in this flight of a lifetime.

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What are the transportation options available?

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There are various transportation options available going around the City of Smiles. GRAB CAR Use the Grab app for ride-hailing services to get to and from the airport, your hotel, and other destinations. SHUTTLE VANS FOR HIRE Shuttle vans are available to and from Bacolod-Silay Airport, with drop-offs at major stops and hotels in the city. RENT A CAR If you prefer driving around the City of Smiles, there are options for car rentals found online.

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Can we take photos during the wedding?

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We have put in a good resource to hire one of the best wedding photo and video professionals, as such we let them do the job for us as we make moments happen. During key moments of the ceremony and event, please keep your phones and cameras away to avoid obstructing the aisle or the wedding entourage. Also, we request that you switch off your mobile phones or set them to silent mode during the solemn ceremony inside the church.

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Can our little ones join?

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Although we love to watch children play, we respectfully ask that this is an adult-only event. The only children attending are those who are part of the wedding entourage.

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What is the dress code?

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We ask that you dress smartly and comfortably. Please refer to our color guide in the invitations and details sent to you or found on this website. For the members of our entourage, we refer you to the specific instructions and details shared to you. For our other wedding guests, we ask that you follow these suggestions: LADIES Cocktail or long dress. Avoid wearing any shades of white as this is reserved for the bride. GENTLEMEN Black suit and tie (not bow tie). Avoid wearing any shades of blue as this is reserved for the groom.

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What is your gift preference?

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Joining us in Bacolod is already beyond what we could have asked for. Your presence is the greatest present! If you'd like to contribute, we’d appreciate any monetary gifts to help us start our future home. If you still fancy to give physical gifts, we kindly ask that you hand them over in Metro Manila, as it would be difficult for us to bring them back from Bacolod. :)

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Will the ceremony and reception venue be indoors or outdoors?

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Both the ceremony and the reception venues will be indoors and are air-conditioned.

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Visiting Bacolod for the first time? Here’s where to stay and what to see (scratch) eat!

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Bacolod City, known for the Masskara Festival and as the City of Smiles, is also a gastronomic haven full of heritage and flavor. Visit our Travel Guide page for a list of our favorite Bacolod dishes that truly represent who we are—each bite will make you say #NamitGid! We’ve also included accommodation recommendations, but you’ll find plenty of hotel and Airbnb options to suit your preferences.

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What kind of weather to expect in the City of Smiles?

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For your flight information, Bacolod weather is expected to be a climate full of love, laughter, smiles, and a gastronomic adventure. Our weather forecast for Bacolod City for the month of June has a weather history of temperatures averaging between 25°C to 32°C . Upon touchdown, expect it to be sunny or may rain for the rest of the day. Dress and pack clothes accordingly.

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What is your wedding hashtag?

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#WALA #NONE #NIL #ZILCH Hahaha. Feel free to tag @beaagcaoili or @kurtcabillon in any of your Social Media accounts.