FAQs
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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We kindly ask that all RSVPs be submitted by December 3rd, 2025. With the event taking place close to the holidays, we’ll need final numbers well in advance to ensure everything is planned smoothly. Please use the RSVP tab in this webpage.
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What if I don't RSVP in time?
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If you don't RSVP by December 3rd, 2025, and we cannot reach you for an answer, you will be marked as "not attending". We would love celebrating with you, however, we also need to keep a schedule for our vendors and can't accept late RSVP's. (This means you are not allowed to show up to our special day. There will be no seating, food, or drink accomodations for you)
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What should I do if I can't make it?
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You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate "Will NOT attend" on our RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP "Attending", but find out that you will not make it, please notify Eliana as soon as you are aware.
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Can I bring a guest / date?
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Unfortunately, we cannot accomodate additional guests. Your invitation will be out to "{Your Name and Guest}" if a plus one has been given to you. Thank you for understanding!
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Is this a kid friendly wedding?
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We love and adore your little ones, however, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration (guests must be 16 or older). Thank you for your understanding!
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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
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The greatest gift you can gives us is being fully present as we say "I do"; We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!
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Is it an outdoor or indoor event?
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Given the season, we felt an indoor setting would offer the most comfort and ease for everyone. Both the ceremony and reception will take place inside, where we can all enjoy the celebration without worrying about the winter chill.
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Will there be a bar?
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Yes! There will be beer/seltzer and wine. We kindly ask you not to bring alcoholic drinks, if you do, they will be taken away from you and given to the bartender due to the venue's policies. We ask you to be patient and respect our bartender!
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Where should we stay?
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Our ceremony will be in Three Bridges, NJ, and the venue is located in Whitehouse Station, NJ. If you need accommodations, please check the “Travel” tab for more information.
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What is the dress code?
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We'd love to see our family and frinds dressed up with us! We kindly ask you not to wear white, beige, or ivory. Please avoid short dresses. Thank you!
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When and Where is the wedding?
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For details regarding the time, and location of our wedding events, please refer to the Schedule tab. We kindly encourage you to review it so you’re well informed and can plan accordingly.
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What time should I arrive? (Ceremony)
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To maintain the sanctity of the ceremony, the doors to the nave (where the ceremony and Mass will take place) will be closed at 1:30 PM. If you arrive after this time, you are welcome to wait in the narthex (the church’s entry or lobby area) until the ceremony concludes. We appreciate your understanding and respect for this sacred moment.
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What time should I arrive? (Venue)
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Guests may begin arriving at the venue starting at 4:00 PM. The venue will not be open before this time, but please feel free to join us any time after. We can’t wait to continue the celebration with you!
