Black Tie Optional - Tuxes and gowns are encouraged, but suits and cocktail dresses are welcome. We can't wait to see everyone dressed in their best!
While we would love for everyone to bring their little loves along, we have restricted our event to children of close family members only.
While we would love more people to join the party we cannot accommodate additional guests. We can only allow people on your invitation. Your invitation will be made out to “[Your Name] & Guest” if a plus one had been given to you.
Please see our "Places to Stay" tab for details on places to stay in Spring Lake, NJ including room blocks and discount codes. Guests who wish to stay over for the night/weekend are encouraged to book ASAP as it is a very popular time of year! Feel free to look to the surrounding area of Brielle, Manasquan, Sea Girt, Belmar Point Pleasant, and Bay Head as other local towns to stay in. Pro Tip: We do not suggest using Asbury Park or Ocean Grove as an option for places to stay due to the "Sea Hear Now" musical festival that weekend!
While we encourage you to drive to the ceremony at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Manasquan. There will be trolleys provided for those staying at the Shore Club and the Ocean House to the cocktail hour and reception. There will also be a trolley for the after party at Spring Lake Tap House and The Shore Club after the reception. Times for trolley pick up and drop off have been posted on the travel page on this website. All of the Hotels and Inns recommended in the town of Spring Lake are within a mile distance to the B&T. We encourage anyone who is not staying at those locations to use the valet services provided by the Spring Lake Bath & Tennis Club, local cab companies, or Uber/Lyft services.
We ask that our church ceremony be “unplugged” so that everyone can be fully present during this special time, our photographer will take care of this part of the day! After the ceremony please feel free to take as many photos as you would like.