Anisa & DhimitriAnisa & Dhimitri
Wedding PartyWedding Party
Mariana BelbaMariana Belba
Mother of the Groom
Mariana is the heart and soul of her family, loving, kind, and always radiating positivity to everyone around her. She is an amazing, wife, mother, and grandmother. With a resilience that knows no bounds, her strong intuition, and even stronger faith, she has shaped the lives of her sons into the wonderful men they are today. Through life’s ups and downs, she has remained a steadfast presence, showing them that family is not just important, it’s worth every sacrifice. Her wisdom, unwavering support, and tender love have been the foundation of her sons’ lives, and the lessons she has instilled will forever guide them. Mariana continues the legacy of faith, strength, and devotion that was taught to her by her mother, Dhimitri’s grandma Violeta. These are the two women that have most influenced Dhimitri, and who he holds so dear in his heart. Mariana has provided companionship, encouragement, and the type of love that is truly unconditional. Dhimitri is beyond grateful for his mother. Her teachings and love continue to echo in every step he takes, ensuring her legacy of strength and devotion will last a lifetime.
Pavllo BelbaPavllo Belba
Father of the Groom
Pavllo is the epitome of strength, love, and dedication. He is a devoted husband, father, and grandfather who has set a powerful example of what it means to be a true man, provider, protector, and a role model. Raising his two sons, he created a life filled with adventure and cherished moments, from family trips to Sunday hikes through the wilderness (who needs a gym when you’ve got the Morava Mountain trails in Korca?) These hikes were more than just walks, they were lessons in resilience, bonding, and appreciating the beauty of nature. Dhimitri and Pjetri always felt loved and safe with their dad. Pavllo’s dedication to hard work and sacrifice, despite life’s challenges, has built a beautiful life for his family. His strong family values and devotion to his loved ones have shaped Dhimitri’s life, and he carries these values into his own journey. But don’t be fooled, Pavllo isn’t all about discipline and hard work. He’s a lover of beautiful things, such as traveling, dance, music, singing, and photographs. He radiates pure joy and kindness, and his infectious energy could light up any room. Without his father’s advice and guidance, Dhimitri wouldn’t be the man he is today. There are not enough words to express the gratitude and admiration Dhimitri has for his dad. Pavllo is the man, the legend, the guiding star, and without a doubt the best dad.
Ballkeze Becky BanoBallkeze Becky Bano
Mother of the Bride
Becky is a loving, determined, and sometimes stubborn mother who has always given her best for her children and family. She is a force to be reckoned with. She’s her family's biggest cheerleader. Becky has always dreamed of Anisa finding love, getting married, and starting a family, but she has never imposed her wishes. Instead, she gave Anisa the freedom to make her own choices. She may have given some strong opinions, but always standing by Anisa's side through every decision. Anisa is endlessly grateful for her mother, who has been her healer, mended her heart time and time again, and given her the courage to start fresh when life got tough. Becky is not just any mom, she's a cool mom. She’s a dreamer and a storyteller, making life feel beautiful even in its most difficult moments. Anisa knows she wouldn’t be who she is today without her mother’s unwavering love and support. And now, after many years of waiting (sorry mom) Becky finally gets one of her most wished-for titles: mother-in-law. Buckle up everyone!
Kujtim BanoKujtim Bano
Father of the Bride
Kujtim is, quite simply, the gold standard for dads, a true embodiment of strength, wisdom, and tradition. A provider and protector, he carries his role with a quiet dignity that makes those around him feel safe and cared for. His strength isn’t loud or intimidating, but calming and reassuring, offering a steady presence that Anisa has always leaned on. He has always made Anisa feel safe and cherished, not by imposing rules or restrictions, but by giving her the freedom to be her true self. He led by example. He is her best friend, trusted advisor, and ultimate role model. Anisa is truly her father's daughter. She shares not only his looks but also his sense of fairness, care for others, and the responsibilities that come with being the eldest. Kujtim’s influence on her life is as gentle and enduring as water shaping a rock, leaving a lasting impact that’s subtle but profound. If given the choice, Anisa would choose Kujtim to be her dad in every lifetime. There’s no one else she would want by her side, guiding her with such love, patience, and quiet wisdom. Kujtim set the bar really high, so high, in fact, it’s no wonder it took Anisa a while to find her happily ever after. But now that she has, she looks back and realizes just how much she owes to her dad. He’s given her everything, shaped her world, and set the foundation for her future. A true hero for his family, and most importantly, for her.
Joanna PeciJoanna Peci
Maid of Honor
In 2010, while working at a hospital, Anisa’s coworkers would constantly ask her if her sister worked there too. That "sister" turned out to be Joanna—a complete stranger at the time, but one who, for some reason, everyone thought looked like Anisa. Honestly, Anisa doesn’t think it was the resemblance, but more that their souls were meant to collide in an epic, lifelong sisterhood. Over the years, they’ve become travel partners, confidants, each other’s safe space and energy boosters. Anisa remembers every detail of their adventures, while Joanna, well... she’s lucky if she remembers what she had for lunch yesterday! Joanna is a grounded realist, the practical anchor to Anisa's endless dreaming and hopeless optimism. Together they make the perfect duo. Their bond is effortless, a mix of deep love and shared laughter. Anisa knows, with complete certainty, that they’ll be by each other’s side as they grow old together, even if she’ll have to remind Joanna of all the details along the way.
Pjetri BelbaPjetri Belba
Best Man
Pjetri is the best man and the best brother anyone could ask for. A devoted husband, a proud dad to two amazing boys, and someone who makes life better simply by being himself. Pjetri has always been a quiet yet steady force in Dhimitri’s life. A man of few words, Pjetri doesn’t need to say much to make an impact. His actions, kindness, and wisdom speak volumes. Although he is the younger brother, he has always been wise beyond his years and has a thoughtful and grounded approach to life that Dhimitri admires. Growing up with Pjetri has been full of adventures, laughter, and meaningful moments. From hiking with dad as children, family cookouts to keeping cherished traditions alive, Pjetri has been at the heart of it all, reminding everyone what truly matters. Dhimitri is so grateful to have Pjetri standing by his side on such an important day, just as he has quietly, but steadfastly, supported Dhimitri through every step of life. Dhimitri cannot imagine a better brother, or a better best man.
Silvana Aliko-SelfollariSilvana Aliko-Selfollari
Maid of Honor
At 17, Anisa and her family moved to the U.S. in June of 2002, and it was a challenging time. Feeling lonely and struggling with a language barrier, teenage Anisa’s naturally nurturing, social spirit was tested. But God always provides, and six months later, Silvana entered her life like a true godsend. From the moment they met, it was as if the Universe had answered her unspoken prayers. They grew up together, experiencing countless 'firsts,' crying, laughing, and even laughing until they cried, and maybe till they peed a little. Their friendship is built on unwavering trust, pure loyalty, and the kind of love that never asks for anything in return. They are each other’s greatest supporters, celebrating one another without hesitation, without motive, simply because that’s what love does. Anisa knows how rare it is to find a friend like Silvana, someone who sees you fully and loves you unconditionally. They call each other sister, because in every way that matters, that’s exactly what they are. Silvana is a blessing not only to Anisa but to everyone lucky enough to know her, and Anisa’s heart is forever grateful for the gift of her friendship.
Ilia ZiuIlia Ziu
Groomsman
Ilia isn’t just a cousin and a groomsman, he’s family in every sense of the word. Always staying connected and showing love to everyone around him, Ilia has a way of making life brighter for those lucky enough to know him. His joy and fun-loving personality are contagious, and he’s built a wonderful life filled with love, resilience, and care for family and friends. Despite the distance, Dhimitri in the U.S. and Ilia in France, they’ve always made an effort to stay close through visits and regular video calls. From childhood adventures to shared milestones as adults, Dhimitri and Ilia share countless cherished memories that have made their bond unshakable. Dhimitri is deeply grateful to have Ilia by his side on this special day, not just as a groomsman, but as the Koumbaro of the wedding, making the celebration even more meaningful. With Ilia’s vibrant energy and unwavering support, this day will be even more unforgettable.
Marcy NunesMarcy Nunes
Bridesmaid
Over two decades ago, fate brought Anisa and Marcy together at a Fourth of July gathering hosted by Mrs. Carlson, Anisa’s English as a Second Language teacher. Sensing Anisa’s need for connection, Mrs. Carlson introduced her to Marcy, and from that very moment, a beautiful friendship began to bloom. What began with sleepovers, where Marcy, affectionately nicknamed “Marcy with the pillow” by Anisa’s mom for always bringing her own, quickly blossomed into so much more. From attending classes together at the University of Illinois at Chicago (with Anisa occasionally sneaking into Marcy's lectures just to stay close), to belly dancing through Chicago's nightlife, and eventually embarking on travel adventures, their bond only deepened with time. Marcy is a whirlwind of energy, always moving, always giving, and always uplifting those around her. Her heart is as boundless as her generosity, and her successes in life are only eclipsed by her endless curiosity and drive for more. As a world traveler, Marcy’s adventures are the stuff of dreams, ones that Anisa often lives vicariously through, all the while feeling a deep admiration and love for her friend. This friendship is a treasure that Anisa holds close to her heart, a bond that has grown deeper over the years. On one of the most meaningful days of Anisa’s life, there’s no one more perfect to stand beside her than Marcy, as they celebrate not only love but the incredible journey of their enduring friendship.
Ludi AlikoLudi Aliko
Groomsman
Ludi and Dhimitri didn’t realize they were destined to become the best of friends, but their fiancées sure did. Ludi is the fiancé of Joanna, the Maid of Honor, and proud dad to the cutest flower girl, Emma. Funny enough, Ludi and Joanna’s relationship began around the same time as Dhimitri and Anisa’s, which means double dates quickly became the norm, and probably will be until they’re all shuffling around the nursing home together. Now, let’s get one thing straight: Ludi may have proposed first, putting Dhimitri to shame (just kidding... mostly), but Dhimitri and Anisa couldn’t be happier for him and Joanna. Ludi is the kind of friend everyone wishes they had. He is genuine, positive, endlessly supportive, and somehow always able to see the best in people. While their ladies may have initially played matchmaker for their friendship, Dhimitri knows this bond is here to stay. Through milestone moments and the best memories, they’ve built a true friendship that goes way beyond being a "plus-one" to their other halves. Dhimitri is excited to have Ludi standing by his side on this special day.
Erka FredetteErka Fredette
Bridesmaid
Nearly two decades ago, Erka welcomed Anisa to Naples with open arms and a heart full of kindness. Erka was a new mom, and Anisa was new to the city, but from that moment, a friendship blossomed and has only grown stronger. Through the years, they’ve stood by each other through every season of life, celebrating joys, weathering challenges, and embracing the beauty of every milestone. Their memories together are countless and priceless: traveling to new places, dancing until dawn (back when they could stay up that late), laughing until it hurt, and leaning on each other through life’s tears and triumphs. They've gone from young and fun to “mature and perpetually tired” without missing a beat. Through every milestone and moment that mattered, they've been each other's biggest cheerleaders, proving time and again that true friendship stands the test of time. Anisa is so grateful to have Erka standing by her side once more, this time as a cherished bridesmaid on her big day.
Hans BanoHans Bano
Groomsman
Hans is Anisa's brother, but from the moment Dhimitri met him, he’s been like a brother to him, too. With his genuine soul, kind heart, and a personality that’s always unapologetically Hans, he’s been a constant source of support for Anisa and Dhimitri’s relationship from the very beginning. Hans is the kind of guy who keeps everyone laughing with his humor, genuine personality, and his no-filter approach speaking his mind without hesitation. These are just a few of the traits Dhimitri likes most about Hans. While Hans could’ve easily been Anisa’s Man of Honor, he opted to join the groomsmen instead, though Dhimitri knows he’s really here to keep things fun, brutally honest, and authentically Hans. Dhimitri is thankful to have Hans by his side on this special day, adding laughter, love, and a little spice to the celebration.
Fiona BelbaFiona Belba
Bridesmaid
Anisa and Fiona's story began in the fall of 2016, when they met as fellow bridesmaids at Blerta's wedding. They instantly connected, and Anisa fondly remembers how sweet and easygoing Fiona was. Fast forward to 2023, Fiona (with a little matchmaking help from Blerta) is one of the masterminds behind this very wedding we’re here to celebrate! Since then, Fiona has been nothing but her usual warm, calming, and wonderful self, welcoming Anisa into the family with open arms and zero sister-in-law drama (take note, people). Some might think it’s rare for two Albanian sisters-in-law to hit it off so well, but these two? They’ve got the kind of bond that goes beyond just family titles. Fiona’s been Anisa’s biggest supporter and her role model every step of the way. Anisa is incredibly grateful to have Fiona as a guiding example in her life and as her koumbara. So yes, what started with Fiona’s matchmaking genius is now being crowned by God's will in church, with Fiona standing by Anisa's side.
Noah BelbaNoah Belba
Ring Bearer
Noah is Dhimitri's first nephew and, as they say in Albanian, the "first joy" of the Belba family, aka the OG joy-bringer. Noah is a powerhouse of curiosity, adventure, and sweetness, with a knack for melting hearts and asking a million questions (seriously, he could host a podcast). This kid can do it all from soccer, hockey, skating, swimming, and even hiking the Morava trails like his dad and Lala did when they were his age. Lala loves him to infinity and beyond, and Anisa is right there on that rocket ship too. These boys are the family’s secret sauce of joy, and Anisa and Dhimitri are convinced they’ll steal the show at this wedding. With Noah leading the way, the aisle might just become the coolest runway in town.
Blerta MihalBlerta Mihal
Bridesmaid
Blerta and Anisa are more than cousins, they’ve shared a lifelong bond. Blerta’s late grandmother, Anisa’s beloved aunt Fija, was admired for her beauty, elegance, and impeccable style. She affectionately called Blerta "Cindorella" and always kept a cherished photo of her on display, which Anisa admired whenever she visited. As a child, Blerta was the most beautiful little girl, and today, she continues to shine with the same beauty, grace, strength, and courage that earned her that special nickname. Blerta’s mom, Teuta, and Anisa are first cousins but more like sisters, so Blerta and Anisa have always jokingly referred to each other as “niece” and “aunt.” Their bond has only grown stronger over the years, as they’ve supported one another through life’s biggest moments with unwavering love and respect. Though older, Anisa has always looked up to Blerta, admiring her accomplishments and the beautiful life she’s created with her family. Blerta is not only her "niece" but also a true inspiration and lifelong friend.
Henri BelbaHenri Belba
Ring Bearer
Henri is Dhimitri's baby nephew and his absolute best friend. The most adorable nugget of love, Henri is as charming as he is clever. He's smart, precise, and selective, already showing off his little Rockstar personality! This little nugget of love is more than just adorable, he’s smart, thoughtful, and full of quiet charm. Henri is his baba’s “copy and paste,” with a personality that shines in his own unique way. He loves spending his days playing with his brother Noah and their pet dog Lilah. His independent spirit makes him truly one of a kind. Henri has a way of melting hearts without even trying. Lala and Anisa love him so much and know that in their special day, Henri will steal the show and everyone's heart as the cutest ring bearer ever!
Aisela GjyzeliAisela Gjyzeli
Bridesmaid
Anisa and Aisela are cousins by family and best friends by choice. Growing up together, these two shared a world of adventures, from staging jailbreaks out of kindergarten (Anisa’s scraped knee is proof) to forming a girl band that sang “English” lyrics only they could understand. Now separated by an ocean, with Anisa in the U.S. and Aisela in Italy, they keep the magic alive through weekly video calls filled with laughter, tears, and stories that only best friends can handle. Aisela is known for her bright smile and “find-the-silver-lining” outlook. Sure, Aisela’s usually grinning ear to ear, but Anisa thinks she’s at her most beautiful when she’s tearing up over something good because she’s just that grateful (yes, she’s a big ol’ softie!). Aisela is a free spirit, a wonderful wife and mother, and a kid at heart who adores exploring the world. She's made regular visits to Anisa, adding even more memories to their beautiful story. Anisa is endlessly grateful to have Aisela beside her on this special day, knowing that a bond like theirs, rooted in love and intention, doesn't come easily and is one for the ages.
Aria MihalAria Mihal
Flower Girl
Aria is the sweetest little girl with the beauty of a true princess. She takes her beautiful looks from her dad, and she inherits the charm and grace from her amazing mommy, Blerta. She easily captures the hearts of all those who spend time with her. Sweet, curious, and smart, Aria is the perfect flower girl. She holds a special place in Anisa's heart and will make the walk down the aisle even more magical. Together with her mommy, Aria will bring even more beauty and charm to the wedding party, making this special day unforgettable.
Emma AlikoEmma Aliko
Flower Girl
Update: Emma was born on March 12, 2025. She is the most beautiful baby girl and has brought so much meaning to all of our lives. Even though Emma is still cozily growing in her mama’s belly, she’s already captured all of our hearts and will soon be the sweetest little flower girl, making our wedding day even more magical. Expected to make her grand debut in March 2025, she’s sure to bring an extra dose of sweetness and adding a touch of innocence and love that will make our day truly unforgettable. She has already brought endless joy to her proud parents, Joanna and Ludi, who are eagerly awaiting her arrival. Anisa, simply can’t wait to meet her precious niece, shower her with love, and be there to watch her grow into the amazing person we know she’ll become. We love you so much already, sweet Emma!
Maila BrencioMaila Brencio
Flower Girl
Maila is Anisa’s sweet, adventurous niece and favorite Italian tutor, whose big heart and bright mind make her truly one-of-a-kind. Anisa loves Maila so much and treasures every moment of being her zia, sharing a special bond that’s grown through unforgettable adventures in Albania, Italy, Miami, and Disney World. Anisa is looking forward to their upcoming adventure at Harry Potter World, where Maila’s love for magic will truly shine. Regular video chats keep them close, with Maila eagerly updating Anisa on her school escapades and her ever-growing Harry Potter collection. From a young age, Maila always had her little suitcase ready for visits to her zia in Naples, FL, and now Anisa’s heart is full knowing Maila’s bags are packed once again, this time to sprinkle petals as her flower girl!