I'm not really sure I can remember a defining moment that we met. Ben and I met when I started to attend the Vineyard church. Our youth group was closely knitted at the time, so we were friends. After some years spent at that church and with the youth group, Ben and I dated for a few months towards the end of my high school career. After our separation, and my graduation, we parted ways. It was not until ten years later that we started to confide in one another over a game of pool or bowling about the recent heartache we both were experiencing in our lives. Our friendship grew into a romance, and we decided that we aren't putting it out.