FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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We kindly ask that you send your RSVP for each event by September 12th so we can provide an accurate headcount to our caterers.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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We have a room block reserved at The Doubletree by Hilton Hotel Nanuet with the block code SDH. These rooms will go quickly, so please make your booking by September 18th for our block discount.
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What time should I arrive at the events?
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We kindly ask that you arrive 15 minutes early to our events to ensure you don't miss any part of the celebration. Please note that the festivities will start as scheduled and won't be delayed.
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Is there transportation to and from the hotels from the venues?
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Yes! We will have shuttles running between our hotel and the venue for each event.
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I've never been to an Indian wedding! What do I wear?
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Indian weddings are incredibly FUN and dressing up is one of the best parts! Dress Code: Sangeet: We request festive Indian attire; the more color, the better! Common choices include more traditional options, such as lehengas, salwar kameez's, heavy kurtas, and sherwanis. Indowestern also works very well for this event! Baraat & Ceremony: We request Indian or Western Formal Attire. Common choices include sarees, lehengas, sherwanis, suits, or long dresses. Reception: We kindly request Black Tie Attire. Common choices include heavy lehengas, floor-length gowns, or regal sarees! We highly encourage tuxedos, though a sophisticated dark suit will be equally appreciated. We would love to see your best glammed red carpet looks! If you're looking for a more detailed answer, ask the bride - she loves talking about clothes! If you need some outfit inspo, here are some sites we've heard are great! Please keep in mind that Indian sizing can run small, so make sure you measure yourself accurately and check the sizing charts! https://www.lashkaraa.com https://www.perniaspopupshop.com https://www.kalkifashion.com https://www.azafashions.com https://www.utsavfashion.com https://www.saree.com
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We heard that we get to steal the groom's shoes?!
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One of the most classic and playful Indian wedding games is joota chupai, or "hide the shoes." During the ceremony, the bride's friends sneakily steal the groom's shoes when he removes them to enter the sacred Mandap space. They hold them for ransom, asking for cash in return after the ceremony. Meanwhile, the groom's brothers and friends try to prevent this playful heist. This tradition symbolizes the open hearts and acceptance of both families, showcasing their willingness to share a lifetime of laughter and fun together. We kindly ask everyone to be gentle (especially to Baiju) during this delightful tradition - no injuries or ripped clothes, please!
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Any Other Questions?
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Feel free to reach out to the bride and groom at baijuandtamanna@gmail.com!
