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The Backmans

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Question

What is the dress code?

Answer

We would love to see you get dressed up for our big day! Dress to impress in formal spring attire (dressier than a sundress, long or midi dresses for the ladies & a suite and tie for the men). Bright, spring colors and patterns are encouraged because it is our happiest day! No jeans/ denim and avoid light colors or shades of white please. Here’s a Pinterest board for inspo! https://pin.it/7GisxwknS

Question

Can I bring a guest/date?

Answer

Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP.

Question

Are kids allowed?

Answer

Invitations are specific to who is invited. We are having a kid-free reception. Enjoy this evening as a date night out!

Question

Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

Answer

We ask that you live in this moment with us. We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins we asks that all phones be put away. We are having amazing photographers and a videographer that we would like to capture this time. After the ceremony, please take all of the photos you would like!!

Question

Will there be an open bar?

Answer

Oh yeah. Get ready to party. *Thomas and Erin are not responsible for any hangovers*

Question

Will the wedding be indoor or outdoor?

Answer

Our ceremony will be in an air conditioned chapel. If we are blessed with a beautiful spring day, we will open the side doors of the chapel. Our reception space is also indoor/outdoor but is all covered.

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