FAQs
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony starts promptly at 4:30 pm. Please arrive no later than 4:00 pm if you are arranging your own transportation. The shuttle will be picking up people from the Montreal Hotel, 2nd Avenue (near the Henry's house), and Burgins Lane (near the Lin-Cox house).
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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There is limited parking in the grass field next to the ceremony and reception. We ask that only those traveling from out of town or who need to leave early (e.g. with children) drive. If you are near a shuttle stop, we would prefer that you take the complimentary shuttles to and from downtown Cape May or Uber. If you are not close to any shuttle, we recommend you Uber!
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Is there a dress code?
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Both the Welcome Drink and Wedding Ceremony will be on grass, so choose your footwear wisely. You might want to bring a sweater or light jacket in case it gets chilly when the sun goes down. We're calling the Wedding Ceremony "Garden Party Formal." Think suit & ties for men and dresses of any length for women. Feel free to make it fun and colorful!
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Can I bring a date?
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If they're listed on your invite, yes! Please understand that our venue has a maximum capacity and we are both blessed with large families.
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Are kids welcome?
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If they're listed on your invite, yes!
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I have a dietary accommodation, can I make a special request?
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We will collect all information on dietary accommodations on our RSVPs. Please let us know ahead of time! We will make it a priority to accommodate everyone's needs and send out an allergen-labeled food menu ahead of time.
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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?
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For anyone arriving on Thursday, we plan to go to the "Ramble," live music on the lawn of the Chalfonte Hotel from 6-9pm. The cocktail hour at Congress Hall is open to all guests starting at 8:00 pm. We hope you'll be able to join us! There will be an After Party at Carney's from 10:30-12:30pm. Transportation will be provided via shuttles. On Sunday morning, feel free to stop by the Cox house for a casual breakfast, but attendance is totally optional!
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How do I get home?
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The shuttles and trolleys will begin leaving the venue at 10:00 pm for Carney's, the Montreal, and the Cox & Henry houses. If you anticipate needing to leave sooner, we recommend you drive or seek out Ubers, which are typically available within 20 minutes of calling one.
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How do I get to the after party?
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The shuttles leaving the wedding will drop guests off in downtown Cape May next to Carney's. Please tell the bouncers at the door that you are here for the "Cox-Henry Wedding" to ensure you are not charged the cover. Late-night snacks will be provided. YOU MUST BRING AN ID. No one under 21 will be allowed entrance as it is a bar.
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Where and when do I get on the shuttle?
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Location #1: The Montreal Hotel Address: 1025 Beach Ave, Cape May, NJ 08204 Departures beginning at 3:30 PM We recommend you take this shuttle if you are staying here: Ohana House s/o’s Montreal Beach Resort Marquis de Lafayette Hotel The Virginia Hotel Carroll Villa Hotel Ocean Club Hotel The Hugh B&B The McCreary Cottage 710 Kearney Avenue 401 Clay Street The Star Location #2: The Kern-Henry House Address: 608 Second Ave, West Cape May, NJ 08204 Shuttle Departure: 3:55 PM We recommend you take this shuttle if you are staying here: 412 Second Avenue 602 Second Avenue 608 Second Avenue 425 Third Avenue The Southwinds The Jetty Motel Location #3: The Lin-Cox House Address: 112 Burgins Lane, West Cape May, NJ 08204 Shuttle Departure: 3:30 PM We recommend you take this shuttle if you are staying here: Burgins Lane residents Burgins Lane Airbnbs 171 Leaming Ave 709 Foster Ave 218 Brainard Ave, CMP
