FAQs

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Can I bring my children to your wedding?

Answer

Great question! We have made the decision to keep our wedding child-free with the exception of family members of the bride and groom. We understand for some guests this means that you might not be able to attend. We completely understand, and we do love your kiddos, but we hope you can join us for a special evening consisting of mostly adults.

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Can we stay with the bride and groom?

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Unfortunately, given the limited space at our place and the many moving parts that will be going into our special day, we will not be able to host anyone visiting from out of state. Travel accommodations are listed under the travel page of this website!

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What should I wear?

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Our wedding does not have a strict dress code! We just ask that you wear "nicer" clothing, and if you plan on wearing a dress, that it not be black.

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Can I take pictures/ videos of the event and post them as the wedding is happening?

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We are asking that all of our guests withhold from making any posts on social media until we make our first post as a married couple. We are also asking that our ceremony be screen-free. This includes cameras, phone, or tablets with the exception of our wonderful photographer.

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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You should RSVP by August 1st of 2025.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We are not granting plus-one's to our guests unless they are in a serious relationship (spanning 6 months or longer). If this is the case, it will be specified in your invitation that you have a plus-one. If you no longer need or do not plan on using your plus-one, please notify the bride.

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Are the ceremony and the reception in the same place?

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Yes! Whaleback Vineyard and Winery is able to accommodate the entire event.