FAQs
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Are children invited to the wedding?
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While we love your little ones, we've decided to make our wedding an adults-only celebration. We hope this advance notice allows you to make any necessary arrangements. Thank you for your understanding.
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What is the dress code?
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We ask that guests dress in formal or semi-formal attire. For men, a suit or sport coat with dress pants is appropriate. For women, a cocktail dress, midi or floor-length dress, or a dressy jumpsuit is ideal. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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Can I bring a guest/date?
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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. Thank you for understanding!
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When do I need to RSVP?
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Please RSVP by May 1st, 2025 by clicking the RSVP tab in the menu above. If you do not RSVP by the given date, we will assume that you are unable to attend. Events will have personalized seating arrangements and will include RSVP'd guests only.
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What do I do if I can't make it?
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You will be dearly missed! If you cannot make it to the wedding, please RSVP "not attending". If you cannot make it after you have RSVP'd, please let us know as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly.
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Where will the ceremony and reception be held?
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Both our ceremony and reception will take place at the Separk Mansion, located at 209 W 2nd Ave, Gastonia, NC 28052.
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What time should I arrive?
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The ceremony will begin at 5:00 PM. We recommend arriving at least 30 minutes prior to the ceremony to allow time for parking and finding your seat.
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Is parking available?
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Yes, the Separk Mansion has free on-site parking parking. However, if you plan to enjoy our bar and drink offerings, we strongly recommend arranging for a rideshare service (such as Uber or Lyft) to ensure everyone's safety.
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Is there anything else we can help you with?
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If you have any further questions that aren't answered here, please don't hesitate to contact us directly. We're so excited to celebrate with you!