FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP if you are or are not attending by October 21st, 2025. It is important for us to communicate with our vendors the final headcount by this date.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony starts promptly at 2 pm. Please arrive at the church by 1:30 pm, thank you!

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Is there a dress code?

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Attire: Black tie preferred. We would love for our guests to go all out in Black Tie! Black tuxedos or black suits and gowns or long formal dresses are encouraged. We kindly ask the ladies to refrain from wearing the colors white and cream. Please note that the bridesmaids will be wearing emerald green.

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Can I bring a date?

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Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate additional guests. We are only able to accommodate guests who are formally listed on your wedding invitation.

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding reception is an adult-only occasion. We encourage all parents to plan ahead and enjoy a kid-free night with us!

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Will transportation be provided?

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There is no transportation provided to and from the church. Please arrange to drive or schedule rides. There is a parking lot available behind the church as well as street parking. For guests staying at the Fox Hollow, transportation will be provided to and from the reception venue, the Mansion at Oyster Bay. The bus has a seating capacity of 26 people and operates on a first-come first-serve basis. The bus will depart from the hotel to the reception venue at 5:40 pm. At the end of the reception, the bus will make trips to and from the Fox Hollow starting at 10:30 pm.

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Where can I go between the ceremony and cocktail hour?

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Please visit the "Things to Do" page. We have recommended diners, coffee shops, and bars near the venue!