FAQs

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When do I need to RSVP by?

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August 20th

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Is there parking at Oblige?

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There is limited street parking in front of the building and a surface parking lot at the end of the street.

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Can I leave bags in my car?

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Because we want everyone to have a pleasant evening and good night make sure to lock your car and do not keep any valubles in your car.

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Where do I stay if I'm from out of town?

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We will be acquiring a hotel block for our guest. More information to come...

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Will there be food and drinks?

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Please eat before you come. This is a Collaring Ceremony followed by a play party. Dinner will not be provided. Oblige offers light snacks and limited drink options for a donation.

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Will there be alcohol? Can we bring alcohol to enjoy?

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Oblige supports a safe, sane, consensual environment to practice kink. Please do not bring any alcohol to Oblige. No alcohol is to be consumed while at Oblige. We thank you for your cooperation.

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Is there a dress code?

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Wear your best kink attire!

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Can I bring a date?

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Yes. Please RSVP your plus one. Please make sure your plus one is aware that this is a BDSM kink positive event! Please also provide your plus ones fetlife info. This event will be heavily vetted.

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Are kids welcome?

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Absolutely not children! This is an adult only space. Everyone present must be of consent age!

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Do you have a registry?

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Yes, as we are two households combined into one we are asking for money toward our honeymoon or next kink event. For your convenience we have funds set up through zola or their will be a box the day of the ceremony.