Shelby & Augie
Wedding Party
Riley Merder
Maid of Honor
Riley is my spirited sister and maid of honor. Riley has the kindest soul and would do anything for anyone. She is such a light to all of those she encounters. Despite the age difference, Riley and I have been the closest of friends and I couldn't imagine this day without her right next to me.
Nathan Okey
Best Man
Nate, or commonly referred to as, Okey, was my first friend I made at Ball State after transferring. Ever since that day we've been the "Dynamic Duo" whether dancing at a bar, or giving me life advice, Okey has always been there for me. I'm honored to have him stand by my side!
Carly Merder
Maid of Honor
Carly is my down to earth sister that is always ready for a good time! She is loyal, funny, and free-spirited. Carly has been by my side supporting me from the beginning. She is the most dedicated and loyal friend/sister I could ask for. Despite how short she is compared to the rest of the family, she is the most feisty out of us all!
Brae Beadles
Groomsman
Brae is the older brother I never had. Brae and I met during fall basketball conditioning my freshman year. You could say Brae bullied me a little. However, a friendship grew and we ended up good friends and failed podcast partners . Lucky to have Brae and his lovely bride Pretty Al as lifelong friends!
Haley Gobert
Bridesmaid
Richmond, IN brought Haley into my life, and it is truly a God given friendship. She is calm, graceful, and patient...so much so, that I introduced her to my best guy friend from high school, Nick Gobert. Haley is selfless and beautiful to all those she encounters. She is a wonderful disciple for the Kingdom.
David Hammons
Groomsman
"Big" Dave Hammons is sure to have the shiniest head at the wedding. Big Dave has been a great friend throughout college and after school. Dave was there for me in school when I needed someone the most. Glad Dave and his lovely wife Johanna can be with us on our day!
Jill Friend
Bridesmaid
This former teammate of mine at Ball State drove me crazy to join the Cardinals during the recruiting process. I dreaded competing against her during travel basketball days. She's a sharp shooter. Once teammates, she immediately became one of my best friends. She is strong, driven, and so passionate! She is a beautiful mother to her son, and I look up to her for her strength!
Brandon Abel
Groomsman
Brandon is another teammate from high school that bullied me. However, Brandon and I became close as we both went to Ferris and have always been there for each other since. Lucky to have our friendship and Have Brandon with me on our day!
Brandy Nirider
Bridesmaid
Another former teammate at Ball State, this lady is the definition of grace. She is poised, powerful, and so full of wisdom. I am so grateful for her advise and love. I aspire to be a strong momma just like she is.
Danny Schwenk
Groomsman
Danny and I were roommates my junior year in the dingy Phi Sig house at Ball State. He is one of my best friends from college, his only downfall is he's a Jets fan. Like who is a Jets fan? I guess I'm honored to have Danny stand with me.
Jaclyn Schmitt
Bridesmaid
This forever friend was my first pal at Ireland Elementary. We've grown so much together. She is fun, lighthearted, and intelligent! Despite college taking us different directions, she has remained consistent. She is a successful dentist in Jasper, and I am so proud of her!
DJ Washington
Groomsman
D.J. is a teammate from high school that also turned into a life long friend. DJ is a guy that can turn anytime into a good time. Look for him on the dance floor once "Go DJ" by Lil Wayne comes on.
Kelly Wilkie
Bridesmaid
This former co-worker became a fast friend the first day on the job. Don't let the southern charm fool you. She is feisty, fierce, and so opinionated. She knows the bride and groom better than anyone...she is our third roomie! If she wasn't on my side, she'd be standing on Augie's.
Chris Jackson
Groomsman
Chris is another Fraternity brother that I've stayed close with since graduation. Chris and I have bonded after both moving downtown after graduation. You can usually find us at a Colts game or at the Dugout. I'm thankful for this guy and our fun friendship.
Maria Gildner
Bridesmaid
This Godly woman introduced herself at the apartment complex I moved to in Brownsburg, IN. We bonded over our pups and going through tough life seasons. Maria is Spirit-centered, selfless, and beautiful! She is a dedicated teacher. She is a consistent friend and puts others before herself always.
Trevor Hartley
Groomsman
If you hear someone screaming at the wedding it's probably Trevor. However, I love this guy and the enthusiasm he has for life. I'm thankful he moved to Indy so I have someone to consistently beat in golf!
Maggie Farwig
Bridesmaid
Maggie is Augie's sweet sister. She is witty, caring, and so selfless! I am honored to add her as a sister. She is adventurous and a dedicated teacher to her students.
Max Pollock
Groomsman
Max is the last of the "Toon Squad" from high school. Max might not be loudest guy at the party but he probably has the biggest heart. Thankful for this guy's friendship and the guidance he's given me through life. Happy him and his lovely wife Megan can join us!
Nick Gobert
Usher
Shelby's first boyfriend in middle school haha! Nick has been a constant friend for Shelby. He is brutally honest and pushed Shelby to be better in sports and life. Nick is now married to Shelby's bridesmaid Haley.
Carl Kramer
Usher
Carl and I met in college when he rushed Phi Sig. We eventually became close living together our senior years in the "Mouse House" and even closer when he married one of my best friends Abby, (one of our lovely readers). Carl and Abby are one of our closest couple friends and very glad they can be a part of our day!
Brett Bobb
Usher
Brett Bobb, the man with 2 first names, has been a great friend since graduation. Brett might be old as dirt but we've had some pretty good times.
Ivan Lomelli
Usher
Ivan and I lived together downtown right after graduation. I'm pretty sure he hated me and my messiness at the time, but we for sure had some good times. Ivan is a fellow Fountain Square resident and a Tequila aficionado if you're into that kind of thing.
Abby Okey
Reader
Abby is the best man’s lovely wife! She is so fun to be around and we love having her and Nathan in Indy with us!
Abby Kramer
Reader
Abby is one of Augie’s close friends from Ball State and now a great friend of Shelby’s. She is so thoughtful and considerate. We love having her and Carl in Indy, and we’ve had so many fun times!