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December 14, 2025
Middletown, CT

Alex & Julia

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When and how do I RSVP?

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There will be more info on RSVPs after the formal invites are sent out. No need to stress, we have plenty of time! When the time comes, you will be able to RSVP with your attendance and meal selection right here on our website.

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Where is the wedding?

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Our wedding ceremony and reception will be held at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills in Middletown, CT.

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Are children invited?

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We love all of your kids! However due to limited space, we unfortunately cannot include everybody's children in our celebration. Invitations will be specific and will include the names of the children who are invited. If your children are invited, it is up to you whether or not you would like to bring them so please RSVP accordingly. There will be a kid's meal of chicken tenders and fries available upon request. Please do not bring your children if they are not listed on your invitation. PLEASE NOTE: Music played during the reception will not be censored.

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Can I Bring a Plus-One?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you have a plus-one they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

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What is the Dress Code?

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Please "dress-up" within your comfortability. Do NOT wear: white or off-whites, neon or very bright colors, busy patterns or prints, shorts or jeans of any kind. PLEASE NOTE: We are hoping to have an outdoor ceremony. This will be weather dependent and not decided until closer to the wedding. The ceremony will be short, followed by immediate access to the heated barn. Please dress accordingly.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 2pm. We ask all guests to arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony start time to ensure everything runs smoothly.

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Is there an open bar?

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Yes, there will be a premium open bar. Please drink responsibly. We are not providing transportation, we encourage you to arrange for your own transportation if needed.

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Will there be a room block?

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Yes! If needed, we have a room block at Courtyard New Haven Wallingford, 18 minutes from the venue. If you need a room, please book by November 14th to receive the discounted rate. You can book through the direct link below, or by calling (203) 284-9400 and reserving in the "Dobosz-Audet Wedding Group". https://www.marriott.com/event-reservations/reservation-link.mi?id=1736198565192&key=GRP&guestreslink2=true&app=resvlink

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What if I have more questions?

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Don't worry! We will continue to update this website with more info as we receive it. For now just mark your calendars, sit back, and relax until things get closer! When the time comes we will have a place for you to ask any questions if you still have some.

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