It’s our time is here…..
On June 20 2017 I saw the future love of my life (Amber La’ Darrion Richards). My dj friend, now family Smithy; called me up to see if I can dj for an Ex’s birthday party. I told him yes of course! It’s my birthday month too so I can celebrate too! That night at the party, I walked in to hug and greet everyone, I began to hook up my dj controller, & I just randomly look up to see a beautiful light skin female with curly hair by the bar. Now I’m thinking … I never seen her before & she fine fine Lol. As the night progressed I kept looking at this female like I am going to get her! I just have to give her a complement on her beauty & how good she looks before she leaves. I was entertaining the event so I could just run up and speak so I hoped, I could reach her before she left. Finally the party was over it’s 5am, lights are on, people are cleaning up, and I realize the female was cleaning up too. Now I’m like oh she know my peoples, with a smirk lol. What an ironic chance to see her still here, so I walked up to her as she looked down sweeping the floor. I grab her hand, she looked up, I introduce my self as “Ali, Smithy lil’ Bredda.” With a beautiful smile she said “I’m Amber nice to meet you.” I just looked at her like, “yea she deff going to be mine” idk how but she is lol. I continued with “ I just wanted to tell you that you look so beautiful” and she respond shocked “Aww thank you Ali.” I then walk off to leave out to go home. As I’m driving, I thought dang! I should have got her number, but I knew I would see her again since she knew Smithy. The 2 weeks later which was not July, I got a Facebook request & message from Amber Richards. My face lit up because I knew we didn’t exchange information, so I’m wondering how she found me. I read her message asking, if could dj for her 25th birthday party. I of course said “yea beautiful, I got you, just make me a flyer for your party and it’s on.” The night of the her party I walk in set up the music, & I started looking for her but I didn’t see her for some strange reason. I then see a bright female sitting down talking, so I’m like oh there she go, I came up behind her to find out it was her Mom lol. I was so embarrass, but as a gentleman I apologized & introduce myself informing her of my interest with her daughter, getting to know my now Mother in law. So finally the birthday beauty walks in looking good as ever. I shouted her out on the mic wishing her a big Happy birthday and she approached me giving me hug. That look & smile we gave each other I knew we’re going to build a connection with each other. We both came from very traumatic, unhealthy relationships. We took things very slow, talking & texting on the phone day & night. We shared unspoken secrets, unspoken hurt, the fact that she was a single mother, with a beautiful toddler daughter at the time, I knew, I had to come correct.We built trust & loyalty, with a lots of dates. September 4th, 2018 we found out our 3 would grow to 4! Welcoming Adonis on April 17th, 2019 the joy we’ll all needed! Fast forward years later, to refocus on each other, they worked out, dieting, & rebuilding their spiritual together. One day, god finally spoke to them and at the same exact time they said let’s just do it let’s get married! We have been on an amazing but hard journey these past 8 years as an unwed couple. In Our hearts we been married but we are solid in our faith & God keeps telling us it’s time as husband & wife trust in him. Join us as we continue this Cadillac ride to husband & wife….