October 7, 2022
Norfolk, Virginia

Aster & Timothy

    Wedding Party

Wedding Party

Meet our family and friends who will be walking down the aisle with us!

Edgardo Bagtas

Father of the Bride

Edna Bagtas

Mother of the Bride

Steven Messa

Father of the Groom

In loving memory of our dad, Steve. We love you and miss you forever.

Perla Messa

Mother of the Groom

Lianna Bagtas

Maid of Honor

Aster's younger sister, best friend since birth, creative confidant, and "twin." Think Annie and Hallie from The Parent Trap, or Special Agent Sarah Ashburn and Officer Mulllins from The Heat. They are inseparable and always will be.

Thomas Messa

Best Man

Tim's older brother, role model, and first best friend. TJ has been there for Tim since the beginning and Tim can't imagine anyone else being his Best Man. He also fulfilled Tim's dream of being a 'fun uncle' last year—blessing him with the sweetest niece, Charlotte!

Din Nim


Aster's best friend, gardening connoisseur, foodie and baking partner, and go-to girl for spontaneous traveling. They've known each other for over a decade, from high school through college, writing snail mail back and forth between JMU and VCU!

Anthony Stalcup


Tim and Anthony grew up together and even shared the same class in 8th grade. From sharing childhood memories to now, Tim can't imagine anyone else he'd want to stand with him on his big day.

Jameela Messinger


Aster's best friend since middle school and the older sister she's always wanted. They basically grew up together and Aster can't imagine her life without her.

Jeffrey Mesa


Tim's cousin and other older brother figure. Jeff and Tim grew up together and it means everything to Tim to have Jeff stand with him on his big day.

Ferdinand Abuel

Primary Sponsor

Godfather of the bride.

Rachel Abuel

Primary Sponsor

Godmother of the bride.

Steven Meekins

Primary Sponsor

Uncle of the groom.

Iryn Meekins

Primary Sponsor

Aunt of the groom.

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