FAQs
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What time should I arrive?
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Our ceremony will start promptly at 5:00 PM. We kindly ask guests to arrive by 4:30 PM so you have plenty of time to park, find your seat, and settle in before the big moment.
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Can I bring a date?
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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!
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Are kids invited?
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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!
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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?
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The ceremony, cocktail hour and reception will all be held outdoors.
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Can I take pictures?
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We are having an “unplugged ceremony” (no phones or cameras). The greatest gift you can give is being fully present as we say “I do”. We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. During cocktail hour and the reception feel free to take as many photos and videos as you’d like!
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When is the RSVP deadline?
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Please kindly RSVP by January 13, 2026.
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Where can I park upon arrival?
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On-site valet parking is available at The Alderman House.
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When and where is the wedding?
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The wedding will take place at 5:00 on Friday, March 13, 2026 at The Alderman House in Fort Myers, Florida.
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What is the dress code?
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We kindly ask that guests dress in cocktail attire. For women, this could be a cocktail dress, midi or maxi dress, or a stylish jumpsuit paired with heels, dressy flats, or wedges. For men, a suit or dress pants with a button-down shirt and jacket is perfect. Gentle reminder: please avoid wearing white, ivory, or cream.
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Can I wear the wedding colors?
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Absolutely! Our wedding colors are black and white. Guests are welcome to wear black. Please remember to avoid white, ivory, or cream.