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July 6, 2019
Carlsbad, California

Ashton & Patrick

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When should I RSVP by?

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We’d love to know if you can make it (we hope you can!) and we know you rather pick your own meal-- So please make sure you RSVP by May 25th, 2019

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Is there a dress code?

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Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.

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Are kids welcome?

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Sure! Please just let us know on your RSVP card

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.

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Will there be a shuttle to and/or from the hotel?

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If you chose to stay at the Westin, yes! If you are interested in staying there and have not booked your room yet, please view the travel tab to book at our discounted rate.

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Will the ceremony be taking place indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be held inside San Luis Rey's old mission church.

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Is there someone I can contact if I have any other questions about the wedding?

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Give us a call or shoot us a text if you have our cell phone numbers. If not feel free to send an email to ashtonandpatrick@gmail.com Day of question? Contact anyone but the bride!

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Do I have to mail back my RSVP or can I RSVP online?

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Please mail back your RSVP card before May 25th to indicate your meal selection for the evening.

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What time should we be there?

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Please arrive at the ceremony site no later than 2:30pm, we will be starting promptly at 2:45pm. The cocktail hour begins at The Crossings at 5:00pm and the location is about 30 minutes away. If you do plan to roam the beautiful Mission grounds after the ceremony (we highly suggest it!), make sure you leave yourself enough time to get to the reception! No one wants to miss out on a glass of bubbly :)

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We have blocked off rooms at the Marriott Westin near the venue. They are offering a discounted rate, a waived resort fee, and free self-parking. To book online please visit the below website by June 5th! https://www.marriott.com/event-reservations/reservation-link.mi?id=1551380521287&key=GRP&app=resvlink

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