If you'd like to join us for the ceremony, plan to arrive by 5:00 PM — the ceremony will run from 5:30–6:00 PM, followed by cocktail hour from 6:00–7:00 PM. Since we're celebrating on a weekday evening, please plan for traffic and aim to arrive a little early so you don't miss a moment.
Formal attire, please — we'd love for you to dress in a way that celebrates the elegance of the evening at Westmount Country Club. Kindly, we ask that you refrain from wearing white, ivory, champagne, or any color that closely resembles white, so the bride can shine on this special day.
With grateful hearts, we've chosen to keep our celebration limited to the children included in our ceremony. We hope you'll take this evening as an opportunity for a well-deserved date night!
Whoever is listed by name on your invitation has a reserved seat with us. We kept our guest list intentional and close to our hearts, so we appreciate your understanding.
Please RSVP by October 22, 2026. Since we're celebrating on a Thursday evening, we know it may not work for everyone's schedule — if you're unable to join us, please let us know so we can joyfully accommodate our other loved ones. If we don't hear from you by the deadline, we'll kindly assume you're unable to attend.
Both will be held at Westmount Country Club in Woodland Park, NJ — the very place where our story first began.
Yes, complimentary valet parking is available on-site at Westmount Country Club.
If you're traveling from out of state, we've reserved a block of rooms for the night before and the night of the wedding — please visit our Travel page for the hotel details and booking information.
Yes! Westmount Country Club can accommodate any allergies, and a vegetarian dinner option is also available. Please let us know of any dietary restrictions when you RSVP so we can make sure you're taken care of.
We're asking for an unplugged ceremony so everyone can be fully present with us in that sacred moment — our photographer will be capturing it all! Feel free to snap away during the reception and tag us #THEABANTOS.
Your love and presence on our wedding day are truly the greatest gifts we could ask for. While we have created a registry for those who prefer to give a traditional gift, a monetary gift toward our future together is sincerely appreciated. Above all, we are incredibly grateful for your love, support, and generosity in whatever form it comes.
Don't be shy — text either of us anytime with whatever's on your mind. We'd much rather you ask than wonder!